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Asexuality And My Self-loathe To Self-love Story – How You Can Self-Love – Empowerography Interview With Sandra Bellamy

Empowerography asexuality interview with Sandra Bellamy

So happy to be featured on Empowerography Podcast telling my personal story of how I went from self-loathing to self-loving through entrepreneurship and what inspires me most about the work I do for asexuals and what asexuality actually is.

Watch a clip from the interview about what inspires me most about the work I do for asexuals, or click here https://youtu.be/c7tuyXe68d8?si=j9XBmA6rKPKCRfLX 

And if you’ve ever lacked  purpose, felt like you don’t belong, or you don’t like yourself or your life – I want you to know I’ve been in that position myself for many, many years, since childhood, and it was tough – is an understatement.

It wasn’t until this moment… that everything changed for me and I went from self-loathing to self-loving…

See what I mean by watching this video below – or clicking through this link https://youtu.be/vJ0rnoVoPos?si=H27JeYBJKRo6gqFF 

 

After watching the video, you may have noticed that in order to self-love, you need to:

  • Take notice of all the special qualities you have.
  • How much life experience you have.
  • How much knowledge you have gained, through work and your life.
  • How many skills you have gained, through work and your life.


  • All of which you can use to help others.
  • Which means you are useful, not useless.
  • You are worthy of being in life.
  • You matter.

So think about all of these.

Helping others gives you purpose, meaning, and helps you to heal also. Even if that’s doing some sort of volunteer work – online or offline.

Helping yourself, by seeing your own value and worth, even when you’re not helping others, is important to your own health and wellbeing. 

The more you see yourself as you truly are, not what love ones, family, so called friends and society have conditioned you to believe and think you are, the more you can be your true authentic self and love yourself. You can’t love yourself if others have manipulated and brainwashed you into believing you are this, that, and the other… and you can never change and there is something inherently wrong with you – what’s wrong with you, is the lies of unworthiness other people have fed you, and you believe, if you lack self-love. I hope you can begin to see, if you lack self-love, that you are worth loving and being in life.

And if you already love yourself, then I’m super happy for you and I’m glad you’re not dealing with the pain of self-loathing like I used to be, of both my life and myself…

In fact, it was in 2012, that my diagnosis of Fibromyalgia saved me from depression and my first ever business seminar I attended, was the start of my entrepreneurial journey that in turn started my self-love journey… before I found out I’m asexual in 2014…

You can listen to the full episode on Apple Podcasts here https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/entrepreneurship-took-me-from-self-loathing-to-self/id1471709447?i=1000644155585

Or Spotify here https://open.spotify.com/episode/4dR9miVPX519uTEbVXScc1?si=ZGvMr-aGQ_eUC_AxcJaWUw

Once again, this interview helps me with my life mission of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation is its own right throughout the globe, so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again, and I’m so happy that Brad Walsh gave me this opportunity to empower and inspire his Empowerography audience.

Let me know what you think ๐Ÿค”

As always, stay ACE.

Sandra xx

โ€œAceโ€ing Asexual Diversity, Self-love, Intimacy, Touch Sensitivity, Body Confidence, Non-conformity

Ace Diversity event

Thanks to all of you who joined the live and intimate diverse discussion during our “Ace”ing Diversity event on Instagram today https://www.instagram.com/asexualiseofficial/ and https://www.instagram.com/rang.org2020/

In the main host Ritash’s own words they felt – (Re)energised & inspired by this fantabulous & intimate conversation with Sandra & Hayathi on “Ace”ing Diversity.

I felt very honoured to be introduced as a “celebrity” – see this clip in the video below, or click here https://youtu.be/2iUE4Dm-Ghk 

It was one of the most raw, real, authentic, interview discussions I’ve ever had.

โ€œAceโ€ing Asexual Diversity, Self-love, Intimacy, Touch Sensitivity, Body Confidence, Non-conformity, covered a wide range of topics:

I was asked about my bestselling Asexual Perspectives book and why I wrote it. – If you haven’t yet got a copy, you can get yours here https://amzn.to/48bZR2C 

We talked about Self-love – Including what that looks like and what actions you can take to self-love / self-love more.

Self-worth, body confidence, self-trust, self-respect, being your own cheerleader and best friend and so much more was discussed under “self-love”.

We talked about self-dating and the fact that on Feb 14th 2015 I founded International Celebrate Being Single Day.

We discussed why it’s good to be happy being single, while also being open to a relationship if wanted, and other types of connections.

We talked about being touch sensitive / averse.

We dived into sensual attraction vs sexual attraction.

We discussed arousal and sexual behaviour without sexual attraction. 

And so much more in-between, if you missed this insightful discussion check out the replay on instagram, now, https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3LKNujPr9K/?igsh=MWthaDRzMG5td2M1aQ

Or on my own YouTube channel here https://youtu.be/qPYKoDnxWAw

Or by hitting play on the video below.

This was filmed live on Instagram using our mobiles.

As always, stay ACE

Sandra xx

ASEXUAL AUTHOR, SPEAKER, COACH, SANDRA BELLAMY ACE-ING DIVERSITY DISCUSSION LIVE INSTAGRAM 10TH FEB

Asexual diversity discussion

TODAY is the day – I’m thrilled to be speaking and co-hosting “Ace”ing Diversity, asexuality and queer diversity discussion, on Instagram, Sat 10th Feb, 3pm GMT / 8.30 PM IST.

Follow me at https://www.instagram.com/asexualiseofficial/ 

With @rang.org2020 @nestamvizag @brown.queer.pride @ritashachanta – please follow us on Instagram and join in the discussion in the comments today at the handle @rang.org2020 ๐Ÿ’œ
If you follow me https://www.instagram.com/asexualiseofficial you should get notified of when I go live, so you can join in the conversation via my profile.

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Would be ACE to see you there,
Sandra xx

If you missed the live discussion on Instagram it can be seen here https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3LKNujPr9K/?igsh=MWthaDRzMG5td2M1aQ

AMPLIFY YOU Ask The Expert: Be Vulnerable And Brave With Your Message – An Asexual Journey With Sandra Bellamy

So thrilled and proud to be featured on the podcast – AMPLIFY YOU: Ask The Expert: Be Vulnerable And Brave With Your Message An Asexual Journey With Sandra Bellamy. 

Once again, this helps to raise awareness of asexuality and bring it to a more global audience that otherwise would never have heard of asexuality. It helps to fulfil my life mission of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again.

Please listen to the full podcast episode on ITunes here https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/amplify-you-with-podcasting/id1457094134?i=1000642435797

On Google Podcasts here https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5jYXB0aXZhdGUuZm0vYW1wbGlmeW91Lw/episode/YjYwZjI4NjctZjAyMS00YjQ1LTljYWUtMGVkZjFjOTlmYzE1?

On Spotify here https://open.spotify.com/episode/6tAjNVGQxWctBjPpITi1Fz?si=a3de7bc54e6e4b4d

An extraordinary story with a powerful message of fostering understanding and breaking down barriers.

Michelle is diving into a conversation with the remarkable Sandra Bellamy, an inspiring figure wearing multiple hats โ€“ advisor, author, speaker, coach โ€“ Sandra is best known for her YouTube channel, “Asexualise My Asexual Life.”

Sandra shares her journey as a romantic asexual, emphasising the importance of self-love and creating a safe space for her asexual community.

Get ready for an authentic and empowering conversation that transcends labels, as Sandra takes us on a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and the creation of a safe haven for the asexual community.

Join us in celebrating Sandra Bellamy’s impact and commitment to creating a world where no asexual has to live in fear.

Don’t miss:

> The importance of asexual representation and visibility
> Overcoming fear of judgement
> Creating a safe space for asexual community
> Behind the scene with Sandra Bellamy in their content creation
> Sandra’s mission mission is to help asexuals recognise their orientation globally

About Sandra Bellamy:

Sandra Bellamy, aka: The Asexual Entrepreneur, Asexualise, and ACE Fibro Girl, is the Bestselling Author of Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life and Sex ACElebration of Asexual Diversity; and Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook, available from Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Blackwellโ€™s, Walmart and more. Asexual Perspectives is also available from Waterstones. Published under her own publishing imprint; Quirky Books. Changing lives from pain to gain, one book at a time.

Sheโ€™s also contributed to #1 Best Seller the BOOK of WHY (AND HOW) featuring James Redfield: New York Times Bestselling Author, The Celestine Prophecy. Sandra has co-authored bLU Talks Vol 11 book featuring James and Ken Honda which is a #1 International Bestseller. She is a member of bLU Talks ExPeRts Bureau, and a Speaker for bLU Talks – she spoke at Oxford University for them in October 2023.

Sandraโ€™s most famous for her reality-TV-style chat show and vlog, Asexualise My Asexual Life, which has had over half a million views. Educating people about the sexual orientation that is asexuality and inspiring and empowering asexuals to be comfortable and confident as their authentic self, using her own asexual life journey to help others with advice and guidance on love, life, dating, relationships, self-care.

She was a Speaker at the UK Asexuality Conference in London and has been featured in the Daily Mirror, Daily Star and on the Jeremy Vine Show, BBC Radio with Graham Torrington, Apple, Spotify, Channel 4, BBC TV, Femedic, bLU Talks Amplify Your Message and on a variety of podcasts including Lifeology Radio which has over 3 million listeners per episode.

Learn more about Sandra and what she does:

YouTube channel with over 708,000 views: https://www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife
New Asexualise Dating channel: https://www.youtube.com/@asexualisedating
(This site) Asexual blog and website with resources: https://www.asexualise.com
Asexual Courses at Asexualise Academy https://www.asexualiseacademy.com

Follow Sandra on her 3 Asexual Facebook Pages:

Asexuality Unveiled – Sandra Bellamy Empowering A Global Asexual Community – Featured on Humans of Fuzia

Asexuality Unveiled – Proud to be featured on Humans of Fuzia, who approached me for an interview, sharing my very personal asexual life story from self-loathing to empowering a global community.

Humans of Fuzia are on a storytelling mission with a particular focus on inspiring and empowering their community of over 5 Million+ Women.


In this article interview, I had to answer questions that were both personal and professional.

Which included:

What was my life like growing up?

What is my initiative and how is it helpful for people? This is about my asexuality mission. 

What was my experience of the Covid-19 pandemic?

What has been the response to my venture?  To the things I do to help asexuals.

How has my life changed? Since I started to help asexuals.

Who is my support system.

And what change I would like to see in the world, this was my answer:

“I would like the world to accept asexuality and that there are some people who genuinely donโ€™t like, want, or need sex. So we can help prevent sexual abuse situations and make dating and relationships a better experience for all.”

Please give this article a read, Asexuality Unveiled: A Journey From Self-Loathing to Empowering a Global Community, here

https://www.humansoffuzia.com/asexuality-unveiled-a-journey-from-self-loathing-to-empowering-a-global-community/

As always, stay ACE

Sandra xx

Asexuality Awareness Achievements 2023 – Asexuality Global Recognition 2023 By Sandra Bellamy Asexualise

Say I do to you

Biggest asexuality achievement in 2023 – I was on James Miller Lifeology Radio show with over 3 million listeners per episode – That’s 3 million people hearing about asexuality!

 

James Miller interviews Sandra Bellamy

Listen to it on Apple Podcasts here:

https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/james-miller-lifeology-radio/id1190946242?i=1000627920736

James Milleris the CEO of James Miller | LIFEOLOGYยฎ, LLC and The Executive Producer and Host of LIFEOLOGYยฎ Radio Nationally Broadcast and Syndicated Radio Show www.JamesMillerLifeology.com

(See my show page on Jamesโ€™s site here https://www.jamesmillerlifeology.com/the-life-of-an-asexual-person/)

Which is broadcast on/across:

National Radio Stations

  • 18 AM/FM terrestrial radio stations: Tuesday at 1:30 pm, Friday at 9:30 am, and Saturday at 12:30 pm
    • Washington, DC: FM โ€“ 96.7
    • Tampa, FL: AM โ€“ 1630, FM โ€“ 92.1
    • Las Vegas, NV: AM โ€“ 1520, FM โ€“ 99.5
    • Macon, GA: AM โ€“ 810, FM โ€“ 87.9
    • Lancaster, PA: AM โ€“ 1640, FM โ€“ 102.1
    • Boulder, CO: FM โ€“ 96.3
    • Milwaukee, WI: FM โ€“ 90.3
    • Pittsburgh, PA: FM โ€“ 94.7
    • Long Beach, CA: FM โ€“ 101.5
    • New Port Richey, FL: FM โ€“ 88.3
    • The Villages, FL: FM โ€“ 97.7
    • Colorado Springs, CO: FM โ€“ 87.9
    • Jacksonville, FL: FM โ€“ 90.3
    • Rocky Hill, NC: FM โ€“ 89.5

Streaming Radio

Archived on Podcasting Platforms

Digitally (Under AMFM247 Channel)

  • Roku
  • WorldTV
  • Dish TV
  • Youtube
  • Google TV
  • Other Network Stations Inclusion

Check it out on my own channel here https://youtu.be/1_3kkGbHRcE?si=KjA4tdA-wNKxvpuH and be sure to give it a thumbs up if you like it.

You can also see my reaction video here https://www.youtube.com/live/0GP791VeTeA?si=smftPk6kZ_ly9w5m or by watching the video below:

The Life And Perspectives Of An Asexual 

Listen to it on my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel here https://youtu.be/5XMtAwHT4aI?si=8JRkVr0XJ4jPOfSL

Sandre Bellamy with Shanna Vavra Sense Of Soul Podcast

I was so happy to be featured on Shanna Vavraโ€™s Sense of Soul Podcast, which is a spirituality podcast, talking about asexuality and my spiritual life mission regarding that. She’s had over a million downloads of her show episodes, so it’s in the top % of listened to podcasts – which is great coverage for asexuality.

Shanna Vavra is a very attentive and inclusive interviewer, interviewing me about The Life and Perspectives of an Asexual โ€“ on ITunes here https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/sense-of-soul/id1468725665?i=1000630467751

Itโ€™s also on Shannaโ€™s own Sense of Soul Podcast YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/s1X6oN-q2J4?si=AEe1Vr2PRfFv6GkR

I spoke about asexuality and self-reinvention at Oxford University for bLU Talks

 Sandra-Bellamy Speaker At Oxford University

Sandra Bellamy blu Talks Oxford Uni


Asexual Sandra Bellamy Quirky Books Bestselling Author And Publisher Speaks At Oxford University For bLU Talks โ€“ Behind The Scenes Highlights



Watch the playlist of clips from my talk in the video below – or click this link https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6sdIToxIi4eaCyEfXpEj-s0dBqcJ4aaA&si=ojSONXiI7sqYBRMg


My self-reinvention talk included my personal transformational life journey:


From being a shy, lonely, deeply unhappy, introverted girl,

Who was a suicidal depressed mess,

With no purpose…

Averse to touch by strangers…

With huge social anxiety,

And I could only see people on a one-to-one basis…


To being extroverted, loud, bubbly, talkative โ€“

Discovering my life purposeโ€ฆ (and living it.)

Being all over social mediaโ€ฆ

โ€ฆ.organising and hosting asexual meetupsโ€ฆ

Being able to hug strangersโ€ฆ 

Being able to talk about sex and masturbation, as easily as drinking waterโ€ฆ to help asexuals.


Want to know how I achieved all of these transformations and more?

.. And learn the 9 steps to reinventing yourself, to whatever best future version of yourself you want to become?

#1 International Bestselling Author Sandra Bellamy

My talk was based on my chapter in the new bLU Talks book, of Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11, with James Redfield โ€“ Bestselling Author of The Celestine Prophecy, and Ken Honda โ€“ from MindValley, who is also the Author of Happy Money, as well as Corey Poirier is That Speaker Guy, Multiple-Time TEDx Speaker, bLU Talks Founder, Co-Author of the Wall Street Journal / USA Today Bestseller, Quitless, Featured in and/or seen on: NBC, ABC, Fox, TEDx, Entrepreneur on Fire, Entrepreneur Magazine, Forbes, Second City, The CW and CBSโ€ฆ

Which became a number 1 international bestseller. See screenshots below:

Number 1 hot new release best selling books

Sandra Bellamy International Num 1 Best Selling Author - Co-Author of bLU Talks Vol 11

 

Number 1 Best Seller In Hypnotherapy

So now I can say I’m a #1 International Best Selling Author.  Get the blueprint to changing your self and your life and become who you truly want to be by buying this book here https://amzn.to/4aO9OWk

Best-Selling Asexual Perspectives Book – Best-Selling Publisher Quirky Books – Speciality Asexuality

Before that, on 08/08/2023, I also became a bestselling author with Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity book. And because I publish my own books under my own book publishing imprint of Quirky Books, I became a bestselling publisher too โ€“ double WOW! Get your copy here https://amzn.to/48nOe9w

Asexual Perspectives Best Seller book


And I wrote Diary Confessions Of A Hyper-romantic Asexual – 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life – book, which I am currently proofreading again along with my best friend, who fortunately for me, works in editorial as a job, so he is highly skilled and knowledgable to help me. Although with a diary-style book, it’s meant to have minimal editing done to it, be a casual conversational tone and use colloquial language, so I have to be careful not to overdo the editing, and to keep it very conversational, but I still want to make some final corrections.

This book is very different to any other book I’ve written before as it’s a diary-style book of my inner most thoughts, feelings and emotions, during a difficult hyper-romantic time and all the life lessons I learnt along the way. It’s written very informally. It’s like a behind-the-scenes of my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel – which is also a behind-the-scenes of my life, where I share my own asexual life journey, in order to help you in yours. Talking about things such as dating, relationships, self-love and self-care – which this book also focuses on helping you with. So it’s like an extension of my channel content to help you in your own asexual life – more details on this to follow and it will be at a low launch price when it’s first released, so keep your eyes on my next blog posts for updates about that, so you don’t miss out.

789 Life Lessons To ACE Your LIFE

I was also interviewed by bLU Talks about asexuality on an episode of bLU Talks Amplify Your Message show which was recorded live – and co-hosted that show once too.

Watch Asexuality Interview with Sandra Bellamy ON Blu Talks Amplify your message show, by watching the video below or click this link https://youtu.be/KCdM9jLUbhU?si=I7q_ARrb8ija1U5v

If you want to see the episode I co-hosted, you can see it here https://www.youtube.com/live/yI-PKfV0Rw8?si=GYpmgczR6MI_G_QL

And I was the first keynote speaker at the Be And Become Summit on 14th Of December.

Sandra Bellamy Asexuality Speaker At Be And Become Summit

Here is my full talk in case you missed it:

And here is the full playlist with some of the highlights of that talk:

on 31st of December 2023, I was notified that I’ve been recognised among the 2023 – Iconic 100 Impact Ignitors Worldwide ICONS for making a difference. (Thanks to all you who voted for me into this 100 list of icons.)

Join me in celebrating positive change asexualiseofficial with International Icon Inc. ( @YouAreTheIconOrg ) and the Iconic Speakers Network ( @IconicSpeakersNetwork), led by the founder Antoinette Logan ( @AskMsLogan ).

See the full list of IMPACT IGNITORS here: https://bit.ly/Iconic100ImpactIgnitorOf2023List (I’m included in the special mentions – People who have made special contributions to positive change.)

Sandra Bellamy Special Mention Iconic 100 List

Sandra Bellamy Special Mentions Iconic 100 List


And last year I was interviewed by Shilpi Gupta Shah,

Mention on LinkedIn


So please, do yourself a favour, never, ever, give up on your dreams and keep taking action to achieve each one of those. Your future self will thank you for it.

And make sure 2024, is the year you say, “I do” to you:

Say I do to you

With much love โค๐Ÿ˜

As always, stay ACE,

Sandra xx

FREE TICKET TO VIRTUAL BE AND BECOME SUMMIT – FEATURING ASEXUALITY – DON’T MISS THIS!

Sandra Bellamy Speaker At the Be And Become Summit

LESS THAN 10 DAYS TO GO UNTIL THE BE AND BECOME SUMMIT –

DON’T MISS THIS!


Have you got your FREE ticket yet?

Don’t miss out!

With less than 10 days to go until the Be and Become Summit, I don’t want you to miss out on this ACEsome opportunity to hear me speak about asexuality and how to reinvent yourself to become your best future self.

I know some of you wanted to see me speak at Oxford University for bLU Talks about asexuality and how it completely transformed my life and self, but you couldn’t make it because it was an in person meetup event in the UK.

Many of you wished to see that talk but online – well I’m so happy to say, that I’m speaking online at the Be and Become Summit on 14th of December at 6.20PM ET – 11.20PM GMT – so it’s less than 10 days to go now! 

And my talk at the Be and Become Summit, is based on the talk I did at Oxford University.

Some of the types of feedback I got about this talk were:

“Now I understand what asexuality is, whereas I was confused before., but it all became clear”

“I enjoyed your talk.”

“I thought your talk was good and interesting, even though it’s not something I would usually be looking to learn about.”- They also agreed I made it relatable to the audience, most of whom were not asexual – one woman thought she might be asexual after hearing my talk, and getting clarity.

I would love to have more ACE friends and representation in the audience, so please grab yourself a free ticket here, and let’s ACE IT together

https://mailchi.mp/bbconsulting.biz/sandrabellamythe-be-and-become-summit

I’m the first Keynote Speaker, on the first day, Thursday 14th December, of this 2 day event – the Be and Become Virtual Summit, #beandbecomesummit 

So you don’t have to wait a long time to hear me talk and you can come and go as you please.

For clarification, the event in on the 14th and 15th of December, and each day it officially starts at 6pm ET (EASTERN TIME) which is 11 AM GMT UK TIME. My talk on the 14th of December, is at 6.20pm ET (EASTERN TIME) and as I’m in the UK it will be 11.20pm GMT UK TIME, when I’m speaking for 20 minutes, straight after the host has introduced the summit and why she decided to create it.

I’m talking about how to reinvent yourself to become your best future, sharing how asexuality transformed my life in multiple ways, for the better, forever.

The summit, will primarily focus on mental health difficulties and how these affect your life (and business if you have one).  

So it will have a mixture of business people as well as asexuals in the virtual audience.

It’s about how to transform your pain into your personal power, to overcome adversities, in spite of any mental health challenges you might be experiencing, and a number of different speakers besides me, will also be sharing their own personal story of how they went from pain to purpose.

I will be sharing how I went from being a depressed mess with no purpose, to everything I do now to help asexuals, be a bestselling author and publisher, and live my best asexual life.

I will be explaining the multiple self-reinventions i’ve made. especially since discovering i’m asexual in 2014.

I hope you can join me on this summit, which is virtual and free – so there is no travelling involved.  

I would love to have your support, so we can ACE IT together!
Please get your FREE Virtual ticket here https://mailchi.mp/bbconsulting.biz/sandrabellamythe-be-and-become-summit

You donโ€™t have to have a business to join, so if you work for an employer, or you don’t currently work, thatโ€™s okay, in the Business Name box of the registration form, just write follower of Sandra Bellamy and interested in the content โ€“ or something similar.
You donโ€™t have to be on camera or speak yourself – you can just listen in.

It would mean to world to me to have your support at the summit.

This FREE ticket offer is open to anyone, regardless of where you live.

This event is ACE for spreading awareness and understanding of asexuality to a global audience! The more awareness we have, the more asexuals will discover each other, and the more inclusive our world will be – how ACE is that?

My mission is to get asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so that no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again – and the more asexual awareness I can raise, the better.

Never give up on your ACE Dreams!

Sandra xx

FREE VIRTUAL TICKET To LIVE Asexuality Reinvention Talk By Sandra Bellamy Keynote Speaker At Be And Become Summit

Sandra Bellamy Asexuality Speaker At Be And Become Summit

Keynote Speaker Sandra Bellamy at Be and Become Summit

How would you like my help, for FREE, on how to overcome your ACE challenges in the face of adversity and mental health struggles, to live your best ACE life?

If that sounds like you, please grab yourself a FREE ticket to hear me speak, live, from the comfort of your own home, at the Be and Become Summit on 14th of December 2014 – I would love to help you and to have your support too.

Get your ticket now, here, https://mailchi.mp/bbconsulting.biz/sandrabellamythe-be-and-become-summit

Questions Answered about my Asexuality Reinvention Talk at the Be and Become Summit

โœ… I’m the 1st Keynote Speaker on Day 1 of this 2 day event – so you don’t have to wait long to hear me talk ๐Ÿ˜

โœ… Day 1, is Thursday 14th of December – which is the day I’m speaking ๐Ÿ”ฅ

โœ… The event officially starts on 14th Dec at 6pm ET time, which is Eastern Time.

โœ… I’m speaking at 6.20pm ET – which is 11.20pm UK GMT Time, for 20 minutes โ™ฅ๏ธ ๐Ÿ’ฅ 

โœ… Your ticket gets you FREE Virtual Summit entry to see all of the speakers talk across both days of the event – (14th and 15th of Dec 2023.)

โœ… As this talk is virtual, you do not have any travel costs

โœ… Many of the other speakers are my Facebook friends and lovely people – so it’s okay to be your ACEY self with them. โ™ฅ๏ธ

โœ… The host has type 1 bipolar disorder and lived experience of anxiety and depression, so you’ll be in understanding company.

โœ… The event has a strong focus on mental health and how to overcome challenges in the face of adversity – so you can be your best ace self.

โœ… As I’m known as The Asexual Entrepreneur – the audience for this event will have both asexuals and entrepreneurs / business owners.

โœ… You don’t have to have a business to join, so if you work for an employer, that’s okay, in the Business Name box of the registration form, just write follower of Sandra Bellamy and interested in the content – or something similar.

โœ… The whole point of summits are to give you new ideas and different perspectives to live your best life. Some people decide to turn a hobby into a profession from listening to some of the inspirational speakers – others are just excited to be learning new things and some people may want to work with one or more of the speakers – who are mostly coaches as well. (There is absolutely no obligation to do this though.) I often have to know someone for a long time before working with them – depending on the situation.

โœ… You don’t have to be on camera or speak yourself.

I’m so grateful to all of you in my community, who watch, like, comment and subscribe to my Asexualise videos and to all of you who contribute to my asexual group communities.

It would mean to world to me to have your support at the summit – I’m asked to bring 30 guests with me and I know a couple of those tickets have already gone – which you can see from the Community posts tab here https://www.youtube.com/@AsexualiseMyAsexualLife/community  look at the poll post.

Get your ticket here, now, 

https://mailchi.mp/bbconsulting.biz/sandrabellamythe-be-and-become-summit

This FREE ticket is open to anyone, regardless of where you live.

My talk is about how to reinvent yourself to become your best future self and I’m talking about a number of transformations I’ve had, including how my asexuality made this possible.

At the end of my talk, I will be providing a step-by-step formula for you to follow to reinvent yourself to become your future self.

So if you missed my in person talk at Oxford Uni, for bLU Talks, for ACE Week last month, don’t miss this!

As always, stay ACE

Sandra xx



    Sandra Bellamy Co-Authors A Book With James Redfield And Ken Honda Talking About Asexuality And Self Reinvention

    Sandra Bellamy Co-Authors with James Redfield And Ken Honda

    Author Sandra Bellamy Co-Authors a  bLU Talks book with James Redfield and Ken HondaSandra Bellamy bLU Talks Author On Cover

    I’m thrilled to be a Co-Author with James Redfield – Bestselling Author of The Celestine Prophecy, and Ken Honda – from MindValley, who is also the Author of Happy Money, as well as Corey Poirier (aka. That Speaker Guy) Multiple-Time TEDx Speaker, bLU Talks Founder Co-Author of the Wall Street Journal / USA Today Bestseller, Quitless, Featured in and/or seen on: NBC, ABC, Fox, TEDx, Entrepreneur on Fire, Entrepreneur Magazine, Forbes, Second City, The CW and CBS – of the new BLU Talks Presents, Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11 book…

    Sandra Bellamy with Co-Author Corey Poirier
    Sandra Bellamy at bLU Talks Oxford University, with Co-Author Corey Poirier, (aka. That Speaker Guy) Multiple-Time TEDx Speaker, bLU Talks Founder Co-Author of the Wall Street Journal / USA Today Bestseller, Quitless, Featured in and/or seen on: NBC, ABC, Fox, TEDx, Entrepreneur on Fire, Entrepreneur Magazine, Forbes, Second City, The CW and CBS – of the new BLU Talks Presents, Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11 book… order your copy here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/

    My chapter is titled – 9 Steps To Reinvent Yourself To Become Your Best Future Self – which includes my personal story of the multiple self-reinvention life transformations I’ve made, including since I discovered I’m asexual in sexual orientation in 2014, not heterosexual – which I thought I was for years. SHOCKING – I know!

    If you’ve watched me on my www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife channel over the years, you will know that today, it’s like a reality-TV-style chat show and vlog, so you will have seen some of the transformations I’ve made over the years – unfold in front of your very eyes, but do you know how I made the transformations I’ve made?

    In this bLU Talks Vol 11 book, I give you the exact 9 step process that I use to reinvent myself, so you can also reinvent yourself to become your best future asexual self – over and over again, and become a happier person within yourself as a result.

    So if you’ve been stuck wondering how you can do this for yourself, know it’s not your fault – you can’t know what no one told you, and the answer is available in this book and I’m living proof it works, time and time again. You can order your copy here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/

    Your future asexual self will thank you for it.

    When you think that an Individual pizza from Pizza Hut costs ยฃ19.99 here https://www.pizzahut.co.uk/restaurants/blog/the-individual and anyone in the world can get this book for $20 USD or $20CAD, or ยฃ19.97 here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/ I hope you would agree, it’s a much more valuable choice – and it’s not going to go down the toilet.

    I’m not the only Author of this Business, Life, and the Universe book. You’re getting valuable insights, help and advice, from all of these awesome specialists in their respective fields, in the order they are in the book:

    Foreword – By James Redfield (Bestselling Author of The Celestine Prophecy)

    On Mentorship – By Ken Honda (Ken Honda – from MindValley, who is also the Author of Happy Money)

    Who Are You When You Are Not What the World Wants You to Be? – By Bhavya Gaur

    Hope, Adaptability, and the Human Experience – By Sangeeta Bhatnagar

    Consciously Co-creating The New Earth through Hulihia – By Lani Kamauu Yamasaki

    Shades of Ethics: A Journey of Trust, Compassion, and Memories – By Sandy Watson

    Victory not Victimhood – By Marquita Waters

    Revamping Pain Relief Beyond Conventional Wisdom – By Ani Papazyan

    The Asexual Entrepreneur: 9 Steps to Reinvent Yourself to Become Your Best Future Self – By Sandra Bellamy (Yes, that’s me)

    Happiness in the Pause – By Laura Lake

    Donโ€™t Judge a Book by its Cover – By Shelley Rogerson

    How to Create an Irresistible Offer for Your Audience and Sell More on Social Media. By Ilona Seddik

    Saving Cassidy – By Tiffany Watson

    Finding Equilibrium: Journey to Pharma-Free Mental Wellness – By Allison Mones

    Finding Joy in the Church Courtyard: Freedom through the Pain of Childlessness – By Beth Rivelli

    Itโ€™s Okay to Be Okay! – By Diane Quartly

    The Art of Transformation: Grief and Growth Through Life Changes – By Sarah Willoughby

    How to Shape Your Reality: The Power of Perception – By Masha Maria Pavlova

    Boosting Teen Self-Esteem through Better Connection with Yourself – By Renee Sinning

    The Whisper of the Soul: Unleashing the Confidence to Fulfil your Soul Purpose – By Helen Hardware

    Cracking the Health Code: 3 Keys to Master Your Energy for Optimal Health – By Tiffany Flaten

    Love, Loss & Gratitude – By Reena Alise

    The Power of Human Connection: โ€œCelebrating identity, culture, diversity and building purposeful partnershipsโ€ – By Shannan Stella

    What Happened to Her? – By Abigail Teixeira

    Healing Visibility – By Marcela Onyx

    Unbreakable Spirit: A Memoir of Triumph and Transformation – By Debbie Bryan

    ReWrite Reality the Way You Like It – By Carl Hunter & Amy Huentelman

    Parenting Todayโ€™s Child with Human Design – By Michaela Gaffen Stone

    SHIFT – By Michelle Wilson

    Beyond Societyโ€™s Limits: Discovering Your Unique Path – By Tiffinnea Roberts

    Awakening Inner Strength, Steps to Recovery from Toxic Partners – By Tammeron

    Get your copy today, now, here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/

    As always, stay ACE xx

    Sandra Bellamy Speaks At Oxford University For bLU Talks As The Asexual Entrepreneur – Behind The Scenes Highlights

    Sandra Bellamy bLU Talks Speaker

    Sandra Bellamy blu Talks Oxford Uni


    Loved speaking at Oxford University, as The Asexual Entrepreneur, on October 23rd 2023, for bLU Talks, about How To Reinvent Yourself To Become Your Best Future Self.

    Watch the behind-the-scenes bLU Talks UK at Oxford University videos below:

    The moment I knew…

    Say no… because we’re here to live our life…

    The below video is a reel of best bits from my Oxford trip:

    Watch the full playlist below, including this ACE asexual introduction:

    My talk was based on my chapter in the new bLU Talks book, of Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11, with James Redfield – Bestselling Author of The Celestine Prophecy, and Ken Honda – from MindValley, who is also the Author of Happy Money, as well as Corey Poirier is That Speaker Guy, Multiple-Time TEDx Speaker, bLU Talks Founder, Co-Author of the Wall Street Journal / USA Today Bestseller, Quitless, Featured in and/or seen on: NBC, ABC, Fox, TEDx, Entrepreneur on Fire, Entrepreneur Magazine, Forbes, Second City, The CW and CBS…

    Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11, – is available to pre-order, now, here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/

    My self-reinvention talk included my personal transformational life journey, especially since I discovered I’m asexual in 2014.

    It also explored, how I went from:

    Introverted, shy, lonely, suicidal, depressed, with no purpose –
    Having social anxiety and feeling lonely, left out in groups…
    Scared to go on social media…
    Touch averse – especially with strangers… (even a tap on the shoulder I didn’t like)…
    Shy to talk about sex…

    To being extroverted, loud, bubbly, talkative –
    Discovering my life purpose… (and living it.)
    Being all over social media…
    ….organising and hosting asexual meetups…
    Being able to hug strangers… and kiss (some) guys in nightclubs I’ve only just met.
    Being able to talk about sex and masturbation, as easily as drinking water… to help asexuals.

    Want to know how I achieved all of these transformations and more?
    .. And learn the 9 steps to reinventing yourself, to whatever best future version of yourself you want to become?

    Read my chapter in the new bLU Talks book, Vol 11, 
    Available to pre-order now at www.blu-talks-book.com

    Get the blueprint to changing your self and your life and become who you truly want to be…
    Your future asexual self will thank you for it, with much love โค ๐Ÿ˜ and as always, stay ACE xx