There’s nothing more exciting and rewarding for a writer/published Author, than changing people’s lives through your own written words.
When you add to that, the fact you are asexual, and you are interviewed about your book and asexual life journey, it’s just the icing on the cake.
I’m so proud to be featured in Loud and Out magazine, about my Asexual Perspectives book, and Author/asexual journey. And what a journey it’s been. I remember when I was scared to talk about sex with anyone else but a partner. I remember a time I thought I had to have sex as part of a ‘normal’ relationship. And I remember how the word asexual turned me off from using it, because it has sexual as part of the word, and I feel I’m not sexual. I remember thinking if you have sexual behaviour, how can you be asexual? Not realising sexual behaviour is not the same as sexual attraction. Asexuals lack sexual attraction, they don’t all lack sexual behaviour.
So you think you know the definition of SEX? Think again… In this new series of re-defining SEX, Kirsty, who is a lesbian, is interviewing a wide range of people about what they think about sex and how they define it. And it’s not what you think! I was absolutely thrilled she asked me to take part in this series and asked me how I defined sex as an asexual. I can’t wait for my Asexuality interview to be premiered on her channel, this Sunday, 13th of September, 2020, at 9am (GMT+1). So set your alarm now, and be sure to show up!
Highlights include:
02:05– Looking at some of the main sub categories within the Asexuality spectrum
The premiere is about 15 minutes long, but the podcast version on the Redefining Sex podcast on Spotify will be the full interview and is about 40 minutes long.
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Asexual Meetup Mastery is THE complete step-by-step system, that I have especially created for any asexual who wants to organise their own asexual meetups, but who doesn’t have a clue where to start, or they tried before and failed miserably. Because they didn’t have the right tools, strategies and resources, to make organising and hosting their own asexual meetups, a piece of cake.
It took me 6 months to create this Asexual Meetup Mastery course, and is everything you need to know about how to organise and hold your own asexual meetups, and ensure they’re super successful, even if you’ve never held a meetup in your life, or you’ve tried before and failed. https://checkout.invanto.com/checkout/course/order/56561/11253
I see so many potential amazingly good asexual meetup organisers, who post about a meetup, and they get no responses, and this breaks my heart… Because I can see where they are going wrong right away. But it’s not enough to just say to them, you are doing this bit wrong, because unless they have a complete system in place, that shows them exactly how to arrange asexual meetups, and what to say and do, every step of the way, in a step-by-step strategic manner, they still won’t get the results they want, and fail. They need to follow the complete system I teach in Asexual Meetup Mastery, step-by-step. From what they say in their initial post, to what they say in private messages to people, through to how they need to approach asexuals differently on different platforms. As every platform where asexuals spend their time, speaks a different language. And the way you approach someone who has autism, in private message for example, is a different way, to how you would approach the general asexual population in a group, or forum. These all require slightly different methods.
Asexual Meetup Mastery walks you though exactly how to promote your meetups on 5+ platforms, to get asexuals to attend your meetups. It shows you how to get asexuals from places like Facebook groups, Asexualitic, and it also shows you how to get them through Meetup.com and how to set up a profile there.
As meetups are predominantly used for socialising with other asexuals, and it’s called social media for a reason – you need to use it to socialise with other asexuals, and get them to know, like and trust you, enough to come to an asexual meetup. This course is not suitable for you, if you are someone who hates using any forms social media. But if you just don’t like one social media platform, there are others to choose from. However, the more places you advertise your meetups, the more likely you are to achieve getting more people to come to your asexual meetups. So your success, largely depends on you. If you are not prepared to put the time, energy, or effort in, that it takes to organise, co-ordinate, and host an asexual meetup, this course wouldn’t be for you. It takes time, patience, understanding, persistence and dedication, to pull off hosting asexual meetups and expand them.
But if you are someone who is prepared to do whatever it takes to meet other asexuals, either face-to-face or online, then Asexual Meetup Mastery is the perfect solution, of showing you exactly how to do that! Step-by-step – every step of the way.
You may need to get out of your comfort zone. Nothing different comes from staying within it. If you are naturally introverted, you need to think of being an asexual meetup organiser, as a facilitator. You are bringing people of your own kind together, to have more close connection with each other, to not feel so lonely, left-out, or isolated. You are giving them a lifeline, when many others don’t, and that lifeline may just be what they need, to stop them feeling left-out, lonely and in emotional pain. To stop their suicidal thoughts, because they know someone gives a s–t about them, and cares for them.
Asexual meetups mean so much to me, without them, I would still be feeling all alone, even though asexuals are available to message online, it’s not the same as interacting with them face-to-face. I wanted to meet asexuals in real-life, that would solidify asexuality for me, in real-world experiences, offline. I wanted a deeper connection. I meet my two best friends through them, and other friends too.
2 things change your life:
Either something new comes into your life, to change it in someway, that could be good or bad. That change happens to you, whether you like it or not…
Something new comes from within you. You change you, you change your circumstances, you change your life. You realise no one else is going to do this for you, and it’s better to change your life for yourself, than have change plonked upon you.
So I would encourage you to get Asexual Meetup Mastery. Rather than look back on your life, at the end of it, with regrets, at what you didn’t do.
When you get this course, you make a one-time only investment payment, and have my ongoing support for life. Anytime you are taking the course, you can message me.
Once you have these skills, you have them for life, and can adapt them for any meetup you want.
My best friend Sam bought the course, and you can see Sam’s video testimonial about my asexual meetups, from the UK Asexuality Conference, in the video below, or here https://youtu.be/N12zEfxSmfM
When Sam first got the course, they were messaging me how to do this and that. I kept replying… it’s in the course… That’s in the course too… Yes, I go through that in the course as well… Everything you need is in the course. They realised when going through the course, they can use the information in this course, to organise asexual meetups, and other meetups too. Such as mental health support. Which is something they are very passionate about.
There’s 20 parts to ASEXUAL MEETUP MASTERY. With 107 lessons in total. Which includes 79 videos in the main course, and 1 video in Bonus Part 18. As well as 15 videos in MEGA BONUS Part 20, as explained above. Making a total of 95 videos. It also includes 6 downloadable handouts in the main course, 1 download in Bonus Part 18, and 1 download in Bonus Part 19. And 4 downloads in MEGA BONUS Part 20, as explained above. Making 12 downloadable handouts in total.
Here’s a reminder of everything you are getting with Asexual Meetup Mastery right now –
When You Order Asexual Meetup Mastery Video Training Course, Here’s Exactly What You’ll Get Right Now!
PART 1 – Welcome – About Asexual Meetup Mastery Course
Revealed to you… the one that can make all the difference!
PART 2 – How To Be A Master Without Disaster
Unlock the magical ingredients you need to succeed, at organising and hosting your own asexual meetups.
Discover the 4 keys to thrive and flourish as an asexual meetup organiser.
Uncover the two key factors, that make or break your asexual meetup success.
Discover the Fantastic 5 places you can find asexual attendees for your meetup. So you aren’t left hanging at the bar all alone, watching the clock tick by, thinking WTF is everyone?
PART 3 – Asexual Meetups And Your 5 Ways To Wellbeing
Uncover your 5 ways to wellbeing.
Discover how asexual meetups improve each of these 5 aspects of your life. Both for you and your attendees.
Revealed… the confidence competence loop. How you can use it to get ahead, in your meetups and your life. And reduce any anxiety you may be feeling.
Uncover the things you must take notice of, if you want to make sure your meetups are super successful.
Discover the power of giving. And what it can do for you and your attendees.
PART 4 – Essential Qualities You Need As An Organiser And How To Get Started
Revealed, the must know dos and don’t of asexual meetup mastery.
Discover the best times and days, for your asexual meetups. To ensure people show up and want to be there.
Uncover major date blunders, which could spell disaster for your meetups.
Discover different types of meetups to hold and to avoid. The good, and the horrifying! Save yourself pain and time, with these ideas.
Uncover the major differences between national and local meetups.
Revealed… how to go that extra mile to ensure people show up and want to be at your meetup.
Discover how to create a safe environment for those with anxiety. To prevent them from panicking, so they feel happy to come to your meetups, instead of dreading them.
PART 5 – Examples Of Previous Asexual Meetups And Things You Need To Know
Revealed… the one embarrassing mistake to avoid, which could ruin your entire meetup..
Uncover what you need to know about ‘different’ meetups.
Revealed… which are the most popular types of meetups for asexuals.
Uncover how to cater for introverts who attend your meetups.
Learn how to cater for those with health conditions such as CFS, (Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.)
Discover how your attendees can get cheap train tickets and accommodation, to encourage them to attend.
Learn how to cater for special dietary requirements to be fully inclusive.
PART 6 – How To Gain Commitment To Ensure People Show Up
Revealed… the #1 thing you need to check, before you invite people to attend your meetup. Get this wrong, and it could spell disaster.
Revealed… the #1 mistake other meetup organisers are making, which encourages non-commitment. If people aren’t showing up to your meetups, this is why!
Discover the one thing you must always do, to ensure you gain commitment, and people show up to your meetups!
Learn how to be inclusive when arranging your meetups.
PART 7 – How To Organise An Asexual Meetup – Asexual Meetup Walk Through In Real Time
Uncover multiple must know mistakes to avoid when choosing the day, date and time for your meetup. This important information, is the difference between people showing up and enjoying themselves, or no one showing up at all.
Discover why it’s important to book the venue in advance, and the problems of not doing so.
Watch me book the venue for a real life meetup, in real time, to see how it’s done the right way.
Learn how to create your ideal meetup script using a real life example, in real time.
Discover meetup script tops tips for success, and a small detail to pay attention to, that can make all the difference. Miss this small detail out, and you could end up with asexuals going to the wrong venue and being extremely angry with you.
Watch me uncover your ideal asexual meetup script checklist for success. And two embarrassing mistakes to avoid.
Learn how to pre-empt objections, to solve problems BEFORE they even become one.
Get my full Asexual Meetup Script Checklist With Template PDF download.
Learn how to instill confidence, to make your potential attendees far more likely to attend.
PART 8 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Facebook – Pages And Groups
Learn best practices, for how to post about your asexual meetup on your personal Facebook profile.
Explore asexual meetup groups, and best practice for preparing to create your own.
Discover 3 ways how to create a Facebook Group for your meetup, and things you need to know to make it a success.
Uncover the important features of a Facebook Group and how to best manage it.
Get done for you, questions for asexual group admittance. This is a download for you to use, to help you avoid an unwanted guest.
Learn how to promote your asexual meetup, the right way in your Facebook Group/s.
Learn how to create a Get-Together in your group/s, for your meetup.
Get Asexualise Academy editable WORD template download, for posting about your meetup to your Facebook profile, Facebook Groups and Pages, site groups and forums. Delete and amend as appropriate. It’s that simple.
Discover how to create a Facebook page for your meetup.
Learn how to sell tickets for your meetup, free or paid. If you want to.
Discover important things you need to know about posting your meetup to a Facebook page, to avoid an unwanted guest.
Learn how to create an event for your meetup, on your Facebook page.
Revealed… an example of what a good asexual meetup facebook Page looks like, so you can learn what works.
Discover how to ensure your meetup post gets noticed.
PART 9 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Asexualitic And Get People To Attend
Learn about Asexualitic. And important things you need to know about the site, as a meetup organiser.
Explore an asexual meetup group and what to do to gain commitment.
Discover how to create a group for your meetup on Asexualitic, and a word of warning.
Uncover an example of a good meetup group description.
Learn how to add a post to a group forum.
Discover how to private message forum group members, and exactly what to say, to encourage them to attend.
Get Asexual Meetup Mastery Editable WORD Templates For Asexualitic Private Messaging. Done for you download.
Exploring Asexualitic profiles, and important things you need to know about them.
Discover how to find members in your local area or country, to message to come to your meetups.
Learn how to best promote your meetup on your Asexualitic profile, without full membership.
PART 10 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Twitter And Get More People To Attend
Learn how to promote your meetup on Twitter. And important things you need to know.
Get Asexual Meetup Mastery Editable Word Template For Twitter. Done for you, download.
PART 11 – How To Maintain Commitment From Attendees
Learn the right way to follow up with asexual meetup attendees before the meetup, to ensure they still attend.
Get Asexual Meetup Mastery Editable WORD Template Facebook Messenger Follow Up Script. Done for you, download.
PART 12 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Ace-book And Get People To Attend
Explore features of an Ace-book profile.
Learn how to create a blog post for your meetup.
Learn how to create an Event for your meetup on Ace-book, and mistakes to avoid.
Learn how to create a new topic in a forum on Ace-book, for your meetup.
Discover the best way to message strangers on Ace-book to get them to attend your meetup.
Get Asexual Meetup Mastery Editable WORD Template Script For Ace-book. Done for you, download.
Uncover the power of messaging someone who wants to attend your meetup, and how to avoid spamming.
PART 13 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Asexuality.org (AVEN) And Get People To Attend
Learn how to promote your meetup on AVEN for maximum impact.
Discover how to check existing meetup threads for meetups already in your area, so you avoid holding yours at the same time.
Explore further, how my first asexual meetup happened. So you can learn what to do and not to do.
Discover what problems you can encounter when organising asexual meetups, so you know how to deal with them.
Learn how to reply to posts on AVEN.
Discover how to start a new forum topic for your meetup.
Learn how to post your meetup on your personal profile for maximum exposure.
Discover how to private message people on AVEN. And be proactive, for maximum attendance.
PART 14 – How To Promote Your Meetup on Meetup(.com) And Get People To Attend
Explore the purpose of Meetup website, and a message of caution.
Learn how to create an account on Meetup and important things you need to know.
Discover how to create a profile on Meetup to best utilise its helpful features, for maximum meetup exposure.
Explore the benefits of Meetup Pro and how it can benefit you and your meetups.
Learn how to best manage your account, email updates, settings, and notifications. So you can keep track of all Meetup activity relevant to you and your meetups.
Discover how to join existing asexual meetup groups and related groups. For your own personal benefit, and the benefit of your own meetups.
Explore a different type of meetup group, as an example of an enticing group description. So you can get ideas for your own meetup, to encourage more people to attend.
Explore an example of a good welcome message, which is especially encouraging to those who have anxiety or special needs. So you can be inclusive.
Learn how to start your own meetup group on Meetup website, and important things you must know before you get started.
Explore features of an existing asexual meetup group. So you can learn from the things they are doing right.
Discover how to best use those features for your own meetup, with more ideas of the types of meetups you can hold.
Learn how to get suggestions for future meetups, and how to best accommodate different needs.
Uncover how to get group reviews and encourage attendance.
Explore meetups for asexuals only, Vs including non-asexuals, so you can make an informed decision whether to include non-asexuals at your meetups, or not.
Uncover a mistake to avoid, to stop missing out.
PART 15 – How To Promote Your Meetup On ACEapp And Get People To Attend
Learn the purpose of ACEapp, and how to create the best profile.
Discover how to find asexuals for your meetup and apply filters.
Revealed… how to recognise and avoid, scammers and fakes. With a real life example.
Uncover what other meetup organisers are getting wrong about national Vs local meetups, and what you need to do about it, to gain maximum attendance. If you don’t know what’s wrong, you won’t do what’s right.
Discover the best techniques for approaching someone on ACEapp to encourage them to attend.
Revealed… the best way to reply to someone who is autistic, and get them to attend. Using a real life example.
Discover how and why, it’s important to be a pro organiser Vs passive organiser. And what this means for you.
PART 16 – How To Grow Your Asexual Meetup
Revealed… how to find different places to go and things to do at your asexual meetups.
Explore asexual merchandise for your meetups.
PART 17 – Next Steps
Discover what you should do next, if you want to thrive and flourish as a pro meetup organiser.
PART 18 – BONUS UK Asexuality Conference 2018 – How To Arrange An Asexual Meetup Talk And Notes
This video is a recording of my 49-minute talk, at the UK Asexuality Conference in London, July 2018. Which explains the what, when, where, how and why, for organising a successful asexual meetup, which ensures people show up!
How To Arrange An Asexual Meetup, UK Asexuality Conference notes. The foundational roadmap for your meetup success, which makes organising and hosting your meetups, a piece of cake! (These notes were not available as a handout at the Conference; they are exclusive to those who take this course.)
PART 19 – BONUS 156 Places To Go And Things To Do At Asexual Meetups
Get 156 Ideas For What To Do And Where To Go For Asexual Meetups, And How To Make It A Success. Never be stuck for ideas for asexual meetups ever again, with this done for you, PDF download.
PART 20 – MEGA BONUS
How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup, The Entire Course FREE, Only With Asexual Meetup Mastery.
What You Need To Know About What You’re Getting Right Now, With This FREE MEGA BONUS
How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup
The Only Online Asexual Meetup Course With A Proven 7 Steps Success Blueprint Which Can Be Used For Both Online And In Person Asexual Meetups
PART 1 – 3 Success Indicators You Need To Know To Be Super Successful
Revealed to you… the 3 Success Indicators. Set yourself up for success from the start. Take the guesswork out of your success with these 3 must know Success Indicators.
PART 2 – Secret 7 Steps Formula For Online Asexual Meetup Success
Unlock the secret 7 Steps Of Success. These simple steps make arranging and holding asexual meetups, hassle free, and as easy as 1,2,3,4,5,6,7. They may be simple, but not obvious.
Discover the one question you need to ask yourself and focus on first, before you even start arranging your own asexual meetup. Miss this one question out, and it could spell disaster!
Uncover must know mistakes, before you arrange your own asexual online meetup. These can be the difference between your success and failure.
Discover the 3 main reasons why people hold asexual meetups, and explore which option is best for you.
Discover the 3 main methods used to facilitate your online meetup, and identify which one’s best for you.
Revealed to you… the 3 simple steps to structure your meetup to ensure it’s successful. Without a plan, you won’t reach your destination.
Revealed… the one thing most people are not doing to gain commitment. Miss this one thing out, and it’s like betting on a horse you’ve never seen race.
Discover the 3 powerful things you need to say to persuade people to show up. This is how you guarantee commitment and reduce your anxiety.
What things to include in your online meetup description to ensure your online meetup runs smoothly and it’s super successful. Learn from my mistakes, to save you the embarrassment.
Done for you, editable meetup description template download. Saving you time working it out on your own.
PART 3 – How To Promote Your Online Asexual Meetup To Ensure People Show Up Including Success Scripts
Discover multiple ways to promote your online asexual meetup and identify which are best for you.
Uncover a major mistake to avoid when promoting your asexual meetup. So you avoid an unwanted guest.
What exact words to use, to persuade people to come to your meetup. Without scaring them away.
Done for you, editable download script template to encourage attendance. Saving you time working it out on your own.
Revealed… The little known secret to getting you maximum visibility for your meetup on Asexualitic. Use this powerful technique to gain maximum exposure.
PART 4 – Creating A Skype Group For Your Online Meetup For Zero Cost And Maximum Impact
Look over my shoulder at exactly how to set up and use a Skype group for your online meetup success. For zero cost and maximum impact.
Discover the two ways people can join the group.
Discover important things to say to your attendees, so they are not left speechless and in the dark.
Revealed… the one embarrassing mistake to avoid, which could ruin your entire meetup.
PART 5 – Success For Life – Secret 7 Steps Of Success Blueprint
Summarising the 7 Steps Of Success you’ve learnt, for life. These can also be used for an in person meetup, over and over again.
7 Steps Of Success Blueprint download. Includes the 3 Success Indicators. Takes the guesswork out of any meetup you want to arrange. Keep these handy to ensure any meetup you organise and hold, is super successful.
What Else You Need To Know About What You’re Getting With This MEGA BONUS Right Now
♠ There’s 19 lessons. Which include 15 videos. And 4 downloadable handouts, which are just amazing, as they’re editable scripts. You’ll get my 7 Steps Of Success Blueprint, plus my 3 Success Indicators.
♠ You’ll learn how to promote your online asexual meetup and where to promote it. Including a really, really top tip, which most people don’t know. This top tip will show you how to promote your meetup and get hundreds of eyeballs on it, on a specific site.
♠ The downloads are easily downloadable at the click of a button. So you can print them off. But if privacy’s an issue I go through everything on the screen. So you can take your own notes and hand write your own scripts out, based on what I’m saying in the videos. Without even using the handouts. So everything that you need to know is in the videos.
♠ You’ll be learning an easy to understand step-by-step formula. And you’ll be able to look over my shoulder at how I arrange online asexual meetups for success.
♠ Many of the videos have important written reminders right underneath them. For your ease of understanding of key concepts, for how to make your own online asexual meetups, super successful.
♠ All you need to do is watch the videos as I hand hold you every step of the way, to your online meetup success. Just read the notes beneath the videos. Be able to copy and paste. It’s that simple.
What Else You Need To Know About What You’re Getting With Asexual Meetup Mastery Right Now
♠ You’re going to be learning from a successful and professional asexual meetup organiser. That’s been organising and hosting asexual meetups for over 5 years. That’s me. And asexuals return to my meetups time and time again. So I’m obviously doing something right.
♠ Asexual Meetup Mastery, which currently includes How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup course, as a MEGA BONUS, is a video training course, which you get to view in your own private members area on secure Amazon servers, so you can have complete peace of mind.
♠ Asexual Meetup Mastery is not based on theory, but uses a real life meetup example; my bestest friend Sam’s birthday meetup. This is what makes this course so special and unique. And super powerful in enabling you to take the right actions, and avoid the painful mistakes I have made along the way in arranging and holding my own asexual meetups, for the past 5 years.
♠ You get to look over my shoulder as I arrange their birthday meetup, in real time, step-by-step. So you can see exactly what works and what doesn’t. As I hold your hand every step of the way to your own asexual meetup success.
♠ Upon purchase, you get instant access to this course, and its 3 bonuses, for life. 365 days a year. 24/7.
♠ Any future updates for this particular Asexual Meetup Mastery course and its current bonuses, will be free, for you.
♠ Learn from the comfort of your own home, or wherever you can access the site, in your own time, making it really convenient for you.
♠ It’s a one-time investment payment, with access for life. No monthly fees. No yearly fees. Once you have these skills, you have them for life. So you can just continue to do more and more meetups, and be super successful.
♠ Email or chat support. Whilever you are taking the Asexual Meetup Mastery course, you can email me asexualise@gmail.com or message me in the chat bubble, about anything to do with this specific course, and any of its bonuses.
(Right now, if you get this Asexual Meetup Mastery course, you can ask me any questions associated with both in person and online asexual meetups, because when order Asexual Meetup Mastery 👉 you get, How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup course right now, as a FREE MEGA BONUS! 💜😍😍💜 Order here – https://checkout.invanto.com/checkout/course/order/56561/11253
As Always, stay Ace
Sandra xx
P.S. If you have any questions about these courses, just email me asexualise@gmail.com – I am only ever, an email away.
I can’t believe I started filming for this course in September 2019, and now, we’re in August 2020. It’s insane how this project just took off and had a mind of its own, and I just couldn’t help adding more and more content to it. Including 3 incredible bonuses. More information about those, are coming up later in this email.
I have put so much time, energy, and effort, into creating this course for you, that now the creation of this course is finally done, I have mixed emotions. I feel both glee and joy in my heart, knowing the phenomenal amount of asexuals this course is going to bring together, and the lives it will change and profoundly impact, but also a sense of sadness, like I am losing an old friend I have known and worked with, so hard for a year right now!
It’s a BIG moment, because I know many of you have been waiting for this course to come out, and asking me when it’s going to be ready, because I know despite being very enthusiastic to get started, you have been stuck as to how to get people to come to your meetups, and commit to showing up, and following through. You have been worried about what to say, without scaring them away. And you have been scratching your head as to where and how to promote your meetups to best effect. You don’t want the pain of making embarrassing mistakes, and having no one show up, or no one even taking an interest in the first place.
I also know many of you are fed up with feeling lost, alone, and disconnected from others of our own kind. You want to be able to meet with other asexuals, in person, or at least face-to-face on video chat. But you have been too scared to take the plunge and do it, because you just didn’t have the right knowledge, know-how, tools, and resources, at your fingertips, to do it… But now, you do!
I know you are perfectly competent and able to do it, you just need someone to SHOW you the right way, HOW to do it. And also get that constant support by email, or live chat, that you need, when you have any further questions, or doubt yourself… for life. Priceless.
So if you’re done with struggling working out how to arrange a successful asexual meetup, either online, or in person, on your own. You feel you are not progressing and you know you need some help, because you don’t know what else to do, and you’re ready to say YES…
YES, to getting the help you need, arranging and holding your own online or in person meetups, for life.
YES, to ending going it alone, which hasn’t got you very far up until now.
YES, to living a more fulfilled, happy, and satisfying, asexual life, of your dreams.
Asexual Meetup Mastery, which took me over 6 months to create, with over 70, almost 80 videos, besides bonuses and resources to download, also includes a MEGA BONUS right now – The entire, How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup, course, as a FREE bonus. So that is two courses, for the price of the Asexual Meetup Mastery course.
If you want to hold both in person and online meetups, you need to get Asexual Meetup Mastery, now. 💜 Order Asexual Meetup Mastery here 👉https://courses.asexualiseacademy.com/course/details/asexual-meetup-mastery and get, How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup course right now, as a FREE MEGA BONUS! 💜😍😍💜
Don’t miss out 😢 on this opportunity of a lifetime and a lifeline.
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There’s 20 parts to ASEXUAL MEETUP MASTERY. With 107 lessons in total. Which includes 79 videos in the main course, and 1 video in Bonus Part 18. As well as 15 videos in MEGA BONUS Part 20, as explained above. Making a total of 95 videos. It also includes 6 downloadable handouts in the main course, 1 download in Bonus Part 18, and 1 download in Bonus Part 19. And 4 downloads in MEGA BONUS Part 20, as explained above. Making 12 downloadable handouts in total.
When You Order Asexual Meetup Mastery Video Training Course, Here’s Exactly What You’ll Get Right Now!
PART 1 – Welcome – About Asexual Meetup Mastery Course
Revealed to you… the one that can make all the difference!
PART 2 – How To Be A Master Without Disaster
Unlock the magical ingredients you need to succeed, at organising and hosting your own asexual meetups.
Discover the 4 keys to thrive and flourish as an asexual meetup organiser.
Uncover the two key factors, that make or break your asexual meetup success.
Discover the Fantastic 5 places you can find asexual attendees for your meetup. So you aren’t left hanging at the bar all alone, watching the clock tick by, thinking WTF is everyone?
PART 3 – Asexual Meetups And Your 5 Ways To Wellbeing
Uncover your 5 ways to wellbeing.
Discover how asexual meetups improve each of these 5 aspects of your life. Both for you and your attendees.
Revealed… the confidence competence loop. How you can use it to get ahead, in your meetups and your life. And reduce any anxiety you may be feeling.
Uncover the things you must take notice of, if you want to make sure your meetups are super successful.
Discover the power of giving. And what it can do for you and your attendees.
PART 4 – Essential Qualities You Need As An Organiser And How To Get Started
Revealed, the must know dos and don’t of asexual meetup mastery.
Discover the best times and days, for your asexual meetups. To ensure people show up and want to be there.
Uncover major date blunders, which could spell disaster for your meetups.
Discover different types of meetups to hold and to avoid. The good, and the horrifying! Save yourself pain and time, with these ideas.
Uncover the major differences between national and local meetups.
Revealed… how to go that extra mile to ensure people show up and want to be at your meetup.
Discover how to create a safe environment for those with anxiety. To prevent them from panicking, so they feel happy to come to your meetups, instead of dreading them.
PART 5 – Examples Of Previous Asexual Meetups And Things You Need To Know
Revealed… the one embarrassing mistake to avoid, which could ruin your entire meetup..
Uncover what you need to know about ‘different’ meetups.
Revealed… which are the most popular types of meetups for asexuals.
Uncover how to cater for introverts who attend your meetups.
Learn how to cater for those with health conditions such as CFS, (Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.)
Discover how your attendees can get cheap train tickets and accommodation, to encourage them to attend.
Learn how to cater for special dietary requirements to be fully inclusive.
PART 6 – How To Gain Commitment To Ensure People Show Up
Revealed… the #1 thing you need to check, before you invite people to attend your meetup. Get this wrong, and it could spell disaster.
Revealed… the #1 mistake other meetup organisers are making, which encourages non-commitment. If people aren’t showing up to your meetups, this is why!
Discover the one thing you must always do, to ensure you gain commitment, and people show up to your meetups!
Learn how to be inclusive when arranging your meetups.
PART 7 – How To Organise An Asexual Meetup – Asexual Meetup Walk Through In Real Time
Uncover multiple must know mistakes to avoid when choosing the day, date and time for your meetup. This important information, is the difference between people showing up and enjoying themselves, or no one showing up at all.
Discover why it’s important to book the venue in advance, and the problems of not doing so.
Watch me book the venue for a real life meetup, in real time, to see how it’s done the right way.
Learn how to create your ideal meetup script using a real life example, in real time.
Discover meetup script tops tips for success, and a small detail to pay attention to, that can make all the difference. Miss this small detail out, and you could end up with asexuals going to the wrong venue and being extremely angry with you.
Watch me uncover your ideal asexual meetup script checklist for success. And two embarrassing mistakes to avoid.
Learn how to pre-empt objections, to solve problems BEFORE they even become one.
Get my full Asexual Meetup Script Checklist With Template PDF download.
Learn how to instill confidence, to make your potential attendees far more likely to attend.
PART 8 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Facebook – Pages And Groups
Learn best practices, for how to post about your asexual meetup on your personal Facebook profile.
Explore asexual meetup groups, and best practice for preparing to create your own.
Discover 3 ways how to create a Facebook Group for your meetup, and things you need to know to make it a success.
Uncover the important features of a Facebook Group and how to best manage it.
Get done for you, questions for asexual group admittance. This is a download for you to use, to help you avoid an unwanted guest.
Learn how to promote your asexual meetup, the right way in your Facebook Group/s.
Learn how to create a Get-Together in your group/s, for your meetup.
Get Asexualise Academy editable WORD template download, for posting about your meetup to your Facebook profile, Facebook Groups and Pages, site groups and forums. Delete and amend as appropriate. It’s that simple.
Discover how to create a Facebook page for your meetup.
Learn how to sell tickets for your meetup, free or paid. If you want to.
Discover important things you need to know about posting your meetup to a Facebook page, to avoid an unwanted guest.
Learn how to create an event for your meetup, on your Facebook page.
Revealed… an example of what a good asexual meetup facebook Page looks like, so you can learn what works.
Discover how to ensure your meetup post gets noticed.
PART 9 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Asexualitic And Get People To Attend
Learn about Asexualitic. And important things you need to know about the site, as a meetup organiser.
Explore an asexual meetup group and what to do to gain commitment.
Discover how to create a group for your meetup on Asexualitic, and a word of warning.
Uncover an example of a good meetup group description.
Learn how to add a post to a group forum.
Discover how to private message forum group members, and exactly what to say, to encourage them to attend.
Get Asexual Meetup Mastery Editable WORD Templates For Asexualitic Private Messaging. Done for you download.
Exploring Asexualitic profiles, and important things you need to know about them.
Discover how to find members in your local area or country, to message to come to your meetups.
Learn how to best promote your meetup on your Asexualitic profile, without full membership.
PART 10 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Twitter And Get More People To Attend
Learn how to promote your meetup on Twitter. And important things you need to know.
Get Asexual Meetup Mastery Editable Word Template For Twitter. Done for you, download.
PART 11 – How To Maintain Commitment From Attendees
Learn the right way to follow up with asexual meetup attendees before the meetup, to ensure they still attend.
Get Asexual Meetup Mastery Editable WORD Template Facebook Messenger Follow Up Script. Done for you, download.
PART 12 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Ace-book And Get People To Attend
Explore features of an Ace-book profile.
Learn how to create a blog post for your meetup.
Learn how to create an Event for your meetup on Ace-book, and mistakes to avoid.
Learn how to create a new topic in a forum on Ace-book, for your meetup.
Discover the best way to message strangers on Ace-book to get them to attend your meetup.
Get Asexual Meetup Mastery Editable WORD Template Script For Ace-book. Done for you, download.
Uncover the power of messaging someone who wants to attend your meetup, and how to avoid spamming.
PART 13 – How To Promote Your Meetup On Asexuality.org (AVEN) And Get People To Attend
Learn how to promote your meetup on AVEN for maximum impact.
Discover how to check existing meetup threads for meetups already in your area, so you avoid holding yours at the same time.
Explore further, how my first asexual meetup happened. So you can learn what to do and not to do.
Discover what problems you can encounter when organising asexual meetups, so you know how to deal with them.
Learn how to reply to posts on AVEN.
Discover how to start a new forum topic for your meetup.
Learn how to post your meetup on your personal profile for maximum exposure.
Discover how to private message people on AVEN. And be proactive, for maximum attendance.
PART 14 – How To Promote Your Meetup on Meetup(.com) And Get People To Attend
Explore the purpose of Meetup website, and a message of caution.
Learn how to create an account on Meetup and important things you need to know.
Discover how to create a profile on Meetup to best utilise its helpful features, for maximum meetup exposure.
Explore the benefits of Meetup Pro and how it can benefit you and your meetups.
Learn how to best manage your account, email updates, settings, and notifications. So you can keep track of all Meetup activity relevant to you and your meetups.
Discover how to join existing asexual meetup groups and related groups. For your own personal benefit, and the benefit of your own meetups.
Explore a different type of meetup group, as an example of an enticing group description. So you can get ideas for your own meetup, to encourage more people to attend.
Explore an example of a good welcome message, which is especially encouraging to those who have anxiety or special needs. So you can be inclusive.
Learn how to start your own meetup group on Meetup website, and important things you must know before you get started.
Explore features of an existing asexual meetup group. So you can learn from the things they are doing right.
Discover how to best use those features for your own meetup, with more ideas of the types of meetups you can hold.
Learn how to get suggestions for future meetups, and how to best accommodate different needs.
Uncover how to get group reviews and encourage attendance.
Explore meetups for asexuals only, Vs including non-asexuals, so you can make an informed decision whether to include non-asexuals at your meetups, or not.
Uncover a mistake to avoid, to stop missing out.
PART 15 – How To Promote Your Meetup On ACEapp And Get People To Attend
Learn the purpose of ACEapp, and how to create the best profile.
Discover how to find asexuals for your meetup and apply filters.
Revealed… how to recognise and avoid, scammers and fakes. With a real life example.
Uncover what other meetup organisers are getting wrong about national Vs local meetups, and what you need to do about it, to gain maximum attendance. If you don’t know what’s wrong, you won’t do what’s right.
Discover the best techniques for approaching someone on ACEapp to encourage them to attend.
Revealed… the best way to reply to someone who is autistic, and get them to attend. Using a real life example.
Discover how and why, it’s important to be a pro organiser Vs passive organiser. And what this means for you.
PART 16 – How To Grow Your Asexual Meetup
Revealed… how to find different places to go and things to do at your asexual meetups.
Explore asexual merchandise for your meetups.
PART 17 – Next Steps
Discover what you should do next, if you want to thrive and flourish as a pro meetup organiser.
PART 18 – BONUS UK Asexuality Conference 2018 – How To Arrange An Asexual Meetup Talk And Notes
This video is a recording of my 49-minute talk, at the UK Asexuality Conference in London, July 2018. Which explains the what, when, where, how and why, for organising a successful asexual meetup, which ensures people show up!
How To Arrange An Asexual Meetup, UK Asexuality Conference notes. The foundational roadmap for your meetup success, which makes organising and hosting your meetups, a piece of cake! (These notes were not available as a handout at the Conference; they are exclusive to those who take this course.)
PART 19 – BONUS 156 Places To Go And Things To Do At Asexual Meetups
Get 156 Ideas For What To Do And Where To Go For Asexual Meetups, And How To Make It A Success. Never be stuck for ideas for asexual meetups ever again, with this done for you, PDF download.
PART 20 – MEGA BONUS
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The Only Online Asexual Meetup Course With A Proven 7 Steps Success Blueprint, Which Can Be Used For Both Online And In Person Asexual Meetups
PART 1 – 3 Success Indicators You Need To Know To Be Super Successful
Revealed to you… the 3 Success Indicators. Set yourself up for success from the start. Take the guesswork out of your success with these 3 must know Success Indicators.
PART 2 – Secret 7 Steps Formula For Online Asexual Meetup Success
Unlock the secret 7 Steps Of Success. These simple steps make arranging and holding asexual meetups, hassle free, and as easy as 1,2,3,4,5,6,7. They may be simple, but not obvious.
Discover the one question you need to ask yourself and focus on first, before you even start arranging your own asexual meetup. Miss this one question out, and it could spell disaster!
Uncover must know mistakes, before you arrange your own asexual online meetup. These can be the difference between your success and failure.
Discover the 3 main reasons why people hold asexual meetups, and explore which option is best for you.
Discover the 3 main methods used to facilitate your online meetup, and identify which one’s best for you.
Revealed to you… the 3 simple steps to structure your meetup to ensure it’s successful. Without a plan, you won’t reach your destination.
Revealed… the one thing most people are not doing to gain commitment. Miss this one thing out, and it’s like betting on a horse you’ve never seen race.
Discover the 3 powerful things you need to say to persuade people to show up. This is how you guarantee commitment and reduce your anxiety.
What things to include in your online meetup description to ensure your online meetup runs smoothly and it’s super successful. Learn from my mistakes, to save you the embarrassment.
Done for you, editable meetup description template download. Saving you time working it out on your own.
PART 3 – How To Promote Your Online Asexual Meetup To Ensure People Show Up Including Success Scripts
Discover multiple ways to promote your online asexual meetup and identify which are best for you.
Uncover a major mistake to avoid when promoting your asexual meetup. So you avoid an unwanted guest.
What exact words to use, to persuade people to come to your meetup. Without scaring them away.
Done for you, editable download script template to encourage attendance. Saving you time working it out on your own.
Revealed… The little known secret to getting you maximum visibility for your meetup on Asexualitic. Use this powerful technique to gain maximum exposure.
PART 4 – Creating A Skype Group For Your Online Meetup For Zero Cost And Maximum Impact
Look over my shoulder at exactly how to set up and use a Skype group for your online meetup success. For zero cost and maximum impact.
Discover the two ways people can join the group.
Discover important things to say to your attendees, so they are not left speechless and in the dark.
Revealed… the one embarrassing mistake to avoid, which could ruin your entire meetup.
PART 5 – Success For Life – Secret 7 Steps Of Success Blueprint
Summarising the 7 Steps Of Success you’ve learnt, for life. These can also be used for an in person meetup, over and over again.
7 Steps Of Success Blueprint download. Includes the 3 Success Indicators. Takes the guesswork out of any meetup you want to arrange. Keep these handy to ensure any meetup you organise and hold, is super successful.
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♠ There’s 19 lessons. Which include 15 videos. And 4 downloadable handouts, which are just amazing, as they’re editable scripts. You’ll get my 7 Steps Of Success Blueprint, plus my 3 Success Indicators.
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♠ The downloads are easily downloadable at the click of a button. So you can print them off. But if privacy’s an issue I go through everything on the screen. So you can take your own notes and hand write your own scripts out, based on what I’m saying in the videos. Without even using the handouts. So everything that you need to know is in the videos.
♠ You’ll be learning an easy to understand step-by-step formula. And you’ll be able to look over my shoulder at how I arrange online asexual meetups for success.
♠ Many of the videos have important written reminders right underneath them. For your ease of understanding of key concepts, for how to make your own online asexual meetups, super successful.
♠ All you need to do is watch the videos as I hand hold you every step of the way, to your online meetup success. Just read the notes beneath the videos. Be able to copy and paste. It’s that simple.
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♠ You’re going to be learning from a successful and professional asexual meetup organiser. That’s been organising and hosting asexual meetups for over 5 years. That’s me. And asexuals return to my meetups time and time again. So I’m obviously doing something right.
♠ Asexual Meetup Mastery, which currently includes How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup course, as a MEGA BONUS, is a video training course, which you get to view in your own private members area on secure Amazon servers, so you can have complete peace of mind.
♠ Asexual Meetup Mastery is not based on theory, but uses a real life meetup example; my bestest friend Sam’s birthday meetup. This is what makes this course so special and unique. And super powerful in enabling you to take the right actions, and avoid the painful mistakes I have made along the way in arranging and holding my own asexual meetups, for the past 5 years.
♠ You get to look over my shoulder as I arrange their birthday meetup, in real time, step-by-step. So you can see exactly what works and what doesn’t. As I hold your hand every step of the way to your own asexual meetup success.
♠ Upon purchase, you get instant access to this course, and its 3 bonuses, for life. 365 days a year. 24/7.
♠ Any future updates for this particular Asexual Meetup Mastery course and its current bonuses, will be free, for you.
♠ Learn from the comfort of your own home, or wherever you can access the site, in your own time, making it really convenient for you.
♠ It’s a one-time investment payment, with access for life. No monthly fees. No yearly fees. Once you have these skills, you have them for life. So you can just continue to do more and more meetups, and be super successful.
♠ Email or chat support. Whilever you are taking the Asexual Meetup Mastery course, you can email me asexualise@gmail.com or message me in the chat bubble, about anything to do with this specific course, and any of its bonuses.
(Right now, if you get this Asexual Meetup Mastery course, you can ask me any questions associated with both in person and online asexual meetups.)
As Always, stay Ace
Sandra xx
P.S. If you missed my personal story about why I started asexual meets in the first place, watch the video on YouTube, called When Disaster Strikes, My Asexual Story, which I have included at the bottom of this blog post or check it out on YouTube here – https://youtu.be/bH5yKeE_ESI
The Earlybird offers advertised in this video have now gone. But at the moment, you can still Order Asexual Meetup Mastery course here 👉https://courses.asexualiseacademy.com/course/details/asexual-meetup-mastery and get, How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup course right now, as a FREE MEGA BONUS! 💜😍😍💜 So don’t delay, order now, before I change my mind about this bonus.
P.P.S. If you have any questions about these courses, just email me asexualise@gmail.com – I am only ever, an email away.
WATCH WHEN DISASTER STRIKES, MY ASEXUAL STORY, TO HEAR HOW ASEXUAL MEETUPS TRULY CHANGED MY LIFE
If you have been part of my ACE community for some time, you will know, I am an asexual Author, Speaker, Trainer, and Coach. I am known as Asexualise, The Asexual Entrepreneur, or ACE Fibro Girl. Or by my birth name Sandra Bellamy, under Quirky Books, which is my own publishing imprint.
My expertise lies firstly, in spreading awareness of asexuality, particularly in context of real life situations. To make it more relatable and easy to understand. And secondly, in helping asexuals to become more comfortable and confident in themselves and with their asexuality. I do this by sharing my own life experience, knowledge, skills, and give you the tools you need to not just survive, but thrive, in this highly sexualised world. Both are equally important to me.
On July 8th, 2018, I was a speaker at the UK Asexuality Conference, in London. Giving a 49 minute talk about how to organise an asexual meetup for beginners. That talk is currently on my channel for free. Here https://youtu.be/RfcZJRaCLls
Did you know, on that same day, I also launched my Asexualise Academy. Which is the World’s First Online Training Centre And School, For Asexuals And Asexuality. It was a proud moment for both asexuality and me personally.
I have been organising and holding my own asexual meetups, for over 5 years now. I started in January 2015.
You can hear more about how that happened and how asexual meetups truly transformed my life, for the better, forever, https://youtu.be/bH5yKeE_ESI
Do not miss this!
Do you…
Feel lost, lonely, and misunderstood?
Feel like you have no support?
Feel like friends, family, and those around you, just don’t get you?
Feel isolated from other asexuals and cut off from them?
Feel other asexuals are out of reach?
Feel frustrated by the lack of asexuals near to where you live?
Long to just meet another asexual in person or via video chat? But you don’t know how to go about making this happen? And you’re scared you’ll get it wrong!
Do you…
Know asexuals that feel suicidal, because people in their immediate environment are not asexual, and they just don’t understand them. They feel invalidated. They feel bad about themselves and have low self-esteem. (Maybe this is you?)
Know asexuals who are in a dark place and depressed state, with little hope the future? (Maybe this is you?)
Know asexuals who feel like they don’t belong in this world? They feel like an alien who has lost their spaceship and can’t find their way home? (This was me, before I started organising and holding asexual meetups. It was a very lonely place to be.)
But… If You Ignore The Feeling Of Isolation, Of Disconnection, Of Emptiness, Of Loneliness, And Despair, It Just Gets Worse!
What most people do when feeling lonely, isolated, disconnection, or in despair, they talk to their friends, their family, their loved ones, a therapist, or a medical professional. But for most asexuals, none of that usually works.
Many families don’t accept asexuality is real. Those that do accept it don’t fully understand it. (So you’re still left feeling lonely and misunderstood.
Friends will often dismiss it, saying you just haven’t found the right person for you yet. (Making you feel misunderstood and invalidated.) Some friends will even feel so uncomfortable, that they change the subject. (And then you feel you can’t be yourself.)
Loved ones may not even know you are asexual. They may be really hard to approach. It could cause confrontation. Those who do accept asexuality, and have an understanding towards you, still don’t fully understand asexuality, itself. (So you feel disconnected, alone, and miserable.)
As you have seen from the counsellor I had, some therapists don’t accept asexuality and give really bad advice. They won’t even entertain the idea of asexuality, or encourage you to be yourself. Those who do accept it still don’t fully understand it. (So you know no matter what you say, they’ll never really get you. And the loneliness and pain just continues to build, as you’re deeply misunderstood.)
Many medical professionals still don’t accept asexuality is real. They think there’s something wrong with your hormones, or your genitalia, or that it’s a result of trauma. Those who do accept it, still usually look at it with a clinical mind. So when you’re talking about your asexuality, they just sit there in deadly silence, and it’s that silence that says it all… (So you continue to feel isolated and in emotional pain.)
Can you relate to any of these?Over the years, I’ve interacted with a number of different asexuals, and hands down, those who live a happier, satisfied, and so much more fulfilling life, are those who attend asexual meetups, and those who organise them.
This is because asexual meetups impact asexual lives in such a positive and meaningful way. That truly transforms their life. Here’s how…
Asexuals gain understanding, that only comes from being with people of our own kind.
Asexuals connect more deeply with other asexuals, because both in person and online meetups allow for that deeper connection, through flowing back and forth conversation, that you can’t get through messaging alone. And because more of the senses are involved. Such as sight. You can see them. You can see their body language, their mannerisms, and how they are in their own environment.
The validation from being around asexuals increases confidence and self-esteem. As asexuality becomes more real – it’s solidified by seeing other ‘real life’ asexuals.
Asexuals grow their support network of people whom they can talk to about asexuality and other things.
Their isolation, loneliness, and despair, just disappears. As they have others who just ‘get’ them, naturally.
They make asexual friendships for life. As well as a number of interesting acquaintances.
The pressure to conform to social norms, just melts away, as everyone at the meetup is asexual, and on the same page with their understanding of one another, and of asexuality.
The relief of being around people who want to be in your company and love and care about you for who you are, gives a massive boost to your self-esteem.
The feeling of being in another person’s company, without the ulterior motive of sex, them wanting to jump your bones, or get in your pants, is vanished, in those moments with other asexuals. And that feels so good. It fosters a safe environment, were you can truly be yourself, thrive and flourish, in your own existence. As your beautiful asexual self, you were always born to be.
In a highly sexualised world, it’s so comforting to know others feel the same way as you, and you are not alone. This in turns makes you feel so good and happy.
Asexuals feel more positive about their asexual self, and life. While being around other asexuals, and staying connected to them.
Having like-minded people to share your life and dreams with, gives you hope for the future.
I know what you may also be wondering. Why is this relevant to me?
Because we need more asexual organisers. Which are sadly lacking in numbers, as they are few and far between. This makes getting to one very difficult.
I have asexuals messaging me asking me to do meetups in their area, because they feel lonely, isolated, cut of from other asexuals (despite being in online asexual groups), and they are in a lot of emotional pain, distress and hurt.
But… I live in the UK, and there is only one of me. I can’t possibly get to all the places even in my own country. And it’s better to have someone who becomes a regular and familiar asexual meetup organiser face in their locality. This way they will feel more safer, stable, and confident, in returning to your meetups time and time again.
It’s a two-way street. If you yourself are in pain right now, because you have never met another asexual face-to-face on a video call or in person, now is the time to end that pain. And rather than talk about having no one in your area, you can organise asexual meetups and get people to travel to come to your own meetup.
Being an asexual meetup organiser, is the lifeline you can give to other asexuals and yourself.
If you want a different result in your life, you have to do something different and make the decision to just go for it, and become a meetup organiser. It’s up to you to end your suffering and pain! And I encourage you to help others to do the same.
Here are 3 reasons why mastering organising asexual meetups is an absolute must:
Asexual meetups give asexuals a feeling of belonging, and of hope. They give them a sense of community, and make them feel like they are a part of something bigger. They give them something to look forward to. This works both ways. If you are feeling lonely or sad, because you aren’t around people of your own kind, it’s time to change that.
Asexual meetups help to stop asexuals feeling suicidal, because they feel like no one understands them. They stop the loneliness and the pain, they give them a lifeline. Being a facilitator to that, will brighten up your own life and world, and make you feel so much happier that you were able to help others.
Once you have these meetup skills, you have them for life. And never again, will you be able to say you can’t bring people together and you are lonely, because you will have all the skills, knowledge, tools and resources, to do just that, and organise any meetup you like.
There are many more reasons why mastering organising asexual meetups is a must, as you have seen from the points above.
That’s why I created How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup and Asexual Meetup Mastery courses, on Asexualise Academy, To help you master all of the skills you need to be a professional and confident asexual meetup organiser, and get off to a flying start. With all the tools, resources, and skills, you will ever need, right at your fingertips, for life.
Asexual Meetup Mastery, which took me over 6 months to create, with over 70, almost 80 videos, besides bonuses and resources to download, also includes a MEGA BONUS right now – The entire, How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup, course, as a FREE bonus. So that is two courses, for the price of the Asexual Meetup Mastery course.
If you want to hold both in person and online meetups, you need to get Asexual Meetup Mastery, now. 💜 Order Asexual Meetup Mastery here 👉https://courses.asexualiseacademy.com/course/details/asexual-meetup-mastery and get, How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup course right now, as a FREE MEGA BONUS! 💜😍😍💜
Here are some of the comments in that chat conversation from that discussion on my channel:
Sam M Meet ups are good for having supportive people, and helping with self acceptance and understand yourself and the community.
Sam M Hey Nic.
Nic Betancourthey sam
Megan The Curse Oh, heya.
Sam M I am planning to start attending LGBT+ meet ups to meet other nonbinary folk, but I’ll mostly run ace ones myself most likely, but may branch out.
Sam M I can’t find many.
Megan The Curse That’s true
Nic Betancourt I think when you hang out with ace people online or offline there is just less pressure. Then real connections can happen
Watch when Disaster Strikes, My Asexual Story, here, https://youtu.be/bH5yKeE_ESI Do not miss this! The Earlybird offers advertised in this video have now gone. But at the moment, you can still Order Asexual Meetup Mastery course here 👉https://courses.asexualiseacademy.com/course/details/asexual-meetup-mastery and get, How To Arrange A Successful Online Asexual Meetup course right now, as a FREE MEGA BONUS! 💜😍😍💜 So don’t delay, order now, before I change my mind about this bonus.
As Always, stay Ace
Sandra xx
P.S. If you have any questions about these courses, just email me asexualise@gmail.com – I am only ever, an email away.
A Happy Life Without Sex – Sexuality Misconceptions Busted! Asexuality interview with Asexual Coach and Asexual Author Sandra Bellamy. Ever wondered what asexuality is really all about, and what is just false myths and stereotypes? Watch this video now, I think you will be surprised! https://youtu.be/OBBvHyR2QKw
As an Asexual Author and Asexual Coach, my dream is to have people contact me, and ask to interview me and share me knowledge of asexuality and my asexual book to the world. This is what happened when Diane Délina, ADHD/Relationship and Sex Coach approached me, to ask to interview me on her sexuality misconceptions show. I jumped at the chance. Any opportunity to raise awareness for asexuality, is a dream come true.
In this video, you will also discover Diane has since had a client who’s daughter is asexual. I am so pleased to be helping another coach to realise what it truly means to be asexual, with all it’s nuances. This means I can help more asexuals and families of asexuals. Watch the video now, to find out more https://youtu.be/OBBvHyR2QKw
That Kidist had to say about this asexuality interview.
If you are a writer struggling with your asexuality right now, know you are not broken, there is nothing wrong with you. You are beautifully ACE.
If you want one-to one coaching, with an asexual coach, for your asexual life, and happy to invest money to change your life, contact me in the chat bubble!
On 3rd of July, I reached 125,000 views on my Asexualise My Asexual Life YouTube channel www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife I couldn’t have reached this many asexuals and educated many allosexuals about asexuality, without your help. Thanks so much, I really appreciate it.
I am truly grateful for every subscribe, every like, every comment, every share, and every recommendation of my channel. It means such a lot.
As you know, from 1st of July 2018, this channel evolved into a daily chat show for asexuals. And I am blown away by the amount of asexuals who openly come in live chat and share their own personal stories to help others in our community there.
As I am sure you are aware, my mission is to get asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation throughout the globe, so that no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again. With your help, I am getting closer to this goal.
If for some reason you haven’t yet subscribed, please join our ACE community there now www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife Besides being an asexuality education channel, I like to think of this channel as personal development for your asexual soul. And please tell all your asexual friends, so they may also benefit from the connection that comes from our community there, and I can get closer to that asexuality mission being realised.
Join me on my channel, for the final couple of days of Asexual Perspectives Awareness Month, which I founded in 2017, when I published the printed version of my Asexual Perspectives book. Celebrating our diversity across the asexual spectrum, and our differences within it. If you have never read Asexual Perspectives, you can get a copy here https://amzn.to/2X3QYGH
Once again, thank you so much for your support, it means so very much.
Love Sandra xx
Stay ACE
P.S. One thing that really helped to get more views on this channel this year, was a FREE piece of software called Tube Buddy. If you have your own YouTube channel and want to grow it, I would highly recommend this free tool. There is a paid plan if you want more advanced features. I find the FREE plan is just fine for me for this channel. I have however, bought a Pro plan for a new channel I plan to have later this year, which is not an asexual one. I will still of course, be keeping this channel. You can view what Tube Buddy has to offer here https://www.tubebuddy.com/SpreadTheTubeLove
I have to admit this is embarrassing to write, because I am sharing something so personal with you, which I never thought I would ever talk about publicly. But if it helps just one person, like you, it’s worth sharing!
When you are sick, it sucks. There is no doubt about that. Extra pain on top of pain, can hurt like hell!
(If you didn’t know I have been having a lot of pelvic pain due to an infection, I had to have antibiotics for this, which ended yesterday. I also went to the Doctor’s yesterday and have two creams, 1 for inflammation and another for ringworm on my arm!!!
Hence why I haven’t been streaming on my Asexualise channel for almost a week .)
But… when you are right about something and something is working, you shouldn’t try to fix something that isn’t broken.
However, sometimes you want to test the waters, and you break things, in order to improve other things, in theory!
But… sometimes the reality is, you were succeeding and doing so well. You changed something and then you see a decline in your health in more ways than 1.
I recently removed 2 food items, one that I eat almost daily and one that I eat at least 3 times a week, but haven’t done so for the last week. Result is poor skin, poor bowel movements… to add to my infection problem. I instantly added 1 back when I thought about what I changed, result, literally back to normal bowel movement, instead of straining on the toilet for 20 minutes, feeling like you are about to give birth! Only what pops out, or doesn’t and you have to help it, is pretty yucky to the eye!
The other 1 key ingredient to not just get healthier skin, but to decrease inflammation in multiple areas of your body, and providing less pain and more body flexibility, I go back to eating this tonight… If you have read my Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook, you will know what this key ingredients is. Here is the link. If you haven’t got your copy yet, get it now, before it’s too late and you end up in pain like I was last night https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn
And yes, I recommend to eat this every day, or at least every other day, 4th day without this, and your health is a goner! This hasn’t happened before as far as I can remember, unless I am on holiday and can’t get this ingredient! I have never actively chosen to not eat this, since 2014. It wasn’t that I intended to not ever eat it again, I just wanted to have a change! Sometimes change can be a good thing, in this case, not… it’s what can happen if you don’t take this…
I admit I give great advice in my books, which sometimes even I don’t always take every bit of, for myself, consistently. My friends who buy my books end up quoting my own wise words back to me. I need to re-read them to give myself a refresher! Which I do! I am not perfect and I cock-up every now and then. I hold my hand up. This has been a major cock-up for my health, but I have learned so much from this experience… and a good lesson to learn. Remove one variable at a time and you get shit, or not – as was the case with the first food, before I added it back.
I never planned to do a health experiment. But what I have learned once again, is to always, always, trust your own judgement, and when something is right, even though it may not be doing what the majority do, keep it! And if others want to be helped too by it, then that’s great! At least you know that you are 100% right, and it works crazily well and can help others if they want it to.
By now I guess you are wondering what luscious food I eat to maintain regular bowel movement and stop yourself from blocking up. So the big reveal… Hazelnut+Cacao Paleo Bars, which you can get here https://amzn.to/3erQksx They are made of fruits and nuts only, cold pressed, no crap, just good food to feed your body! And better than eating chocolate. Also suitable for vegetarians and gluten free.
If you want to know the other food ingredient, to not just get healthier skin, but to decrease inflammation in multiple areas of your body, and provide less pain and more body flexibility, get a copy of my Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook. Why get the book? Because it also has a whole holistic plan, for managing Fibromyalgia, so if you have a chronic pain condition although you need this essential food, you also need it as part of a holistic health regime I go through in each chapter of the book, to have less pain, more energy, feel happier, and not just eat this and do nothing else. If you haven’t got your copy yet, get it now, before it’s too late and you end up in pain with no remedy to get your life back on track. Here is the link https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn
I know you are probably thinking why can’t I just tell you the ingredient. But I made the mistake of telling one asexual person about the ingredient without them getting the overall holistic plan which is provided by each chapter of the book. Which includes foods not to eat that are killing your energy. So they can’t live life to the fullest, because they still have a lack of energy by eating the wrong foods that zap their energy. It’s not their fault. You don’t know what you don’t know. And now I feel bad, like it’s my fault, as I really wanted to help them, but realise I didn’t. So I won’t share it again out of context. Amazon usually refund you as per their policy, if you don’t feel you learn anything from the book and aren’t happy for any reason with it, so you have nothing to lose anyway.
Even if you don’t have Fibro, it can still help to reduce your pain and give you more energy, so you feel happier, https://amzn.to/2DuR9nn And I do talk about asexuality in a chapter of the book, so tell your friends to help spread awareness of asexuality too.
Some asexuals have never dated before in their life, or are inexperienced at it. If that sounds like you, or you just want some help with asexual dating, read on…
7 Steps How To Get Started With Asexual Dating
Join Facebook dating groups for asexuals. Be aware that although my asexual dating groups should have only asexuals in them, some other asexual admins, aren’t so strict with who they allow in their groups, and you might find some sexuals in them, so use careful questioning to determine if they are asexual and if they would be suitable for you, when you get someone approach you, or when you message someone from those groups. Post a post introducing yourself and keep posting every so often as new members are added. Remember to say where you live, what type of asexual you are, what type of relationship you are looking for, and with what gender – including any and all. Whether you are a mover or non-mover – In other words can you move or not? And say a bit about your hobbies and interests, so someone has got something to talk to you about if they approach you. For example, I am Sandra, I live in the UK, I am a heteroromantic asexual, a non-mover, so need to find someone who would move to live near me. I am a heteroromantic asexual and I live in the UK, I am looking for a highly romantic, lots of kissing, with no sex ever relationship, with an asexual guy. I am a non-mover. I don’t want marriage or kids, and I prefer to live on my own, but would love the right asexual guy to move to live near me, but not with me. I have a preference for younger foreign guys, in their 20s, especially Indian. I love writing, going to the cinema, out for meals, to theme parks, zoos, and aquariums. Must be a non-smoker, and preferably clean shaven.
Join Asexualitic.com fill out your bio on your profile as full as possible. You can copy and paste what you posted in the Facebook dating groups, into your profile on this site. Add more as you feel necessary. The more information the better. Check out the group forums as they can often be more active that the rest of the site. Search “Members”, as well as searching in the various groups and forum threads, for suitable matches for you. Remember it’s a yearly fee if you want private message people on this site. If you don’t want to pay for the site, then in your bio add “I am not a paying member of this site, so cannot private message, if I have friend requested you that’s means I am interested in getting to know you more, so please email me at… or you can also contact me on Facebook at…” Then ensure you send a friend request to those you are interested in getting to know more about, for a potential relationship. Remember, there will likely be some people who aren’t really asexual on this site. I have come across a few.
Join ace-book.net fill out your bio on your profile as full as possible. You can copy and paste what you posted in the Facebook dating groups, into your profile on this site. Add more as you feel necessary. The more information the better. Check “Matches” and “Local Matches” to find suitable matches for you. Take part in the forums, as you never know, you might meet someone suitable for you in those. Remember, there will likely be some people who aren’t really asexual on this site. I have come across a few.
Download aceAPP for your Android or Apple phone. Fill out your bio as much as possible, in the short amount of characters allowed, with all the key point deal breakers for you, such as; no sex, no kids, UK only. Use “Bake Cake” to swipe through suitable matches, change the “filters” as appropriate, to narrow or widen the geographical area you would consider having people match with you within, and also try the “Active Now” feature, to find suitable matches for you. Be aware there are a number of people on this App who are fake, and as well not asexual. Watch the video below to find out more what to look out for. I still think it’s worth joining as I have met two genuine asexuals from that app, who attended my in person asexual meetups.
Be proactive, not reactive. Approach people in; the Facebook Asexual dating groups you have joined, on asexualitic.com on ace-book.net and on aceAPP. Don’t wait to get a message from others, you message them, and understand that rejection both by yourself and by others towards you, is a natural part of dating and nothing personal. It means you can rule that person out and get closer to getting the right person for you. So it’s a good thing, not a bad thing.
Go through the “members” list for each Facebook dating group you are in, and click through the profiles of those who interest you and send a private message to begin a conversation with them – providing there are no group rules specifying otherwise. I encourage private messaging in my dating groups. Politely say you are not interested, if someone messages you, and you aren’t. Just say something like, thanks but you aren’t my type, or you aren’t what I am looking for, but good luck with your search. If you are sending them a message, and you are not friends with them, your message will likely land in their “other” messages inbox. So if you don’t get a reply within 2 days, and you notice they haven’t seen your message, send them a friend request, as if you become friends with them, they will be able to see your messages. You can always unfriend them if they accept and you find out they aren’t even suitable to be friends with you.
If you have been messaging with someone for a while and it’s going well and you think you might be suitable for a potential relationship, have a Skype date/Video date with them. This is the next step. Always do this before meeting up with them in person. If the person refuses to do this or make excuses so they can’t do it for some reason, move on. It’s not worth risking your safety over. It’s a lot easier to find genuine and serious people, if you ask to video chat, they should be happy to. It shouldn’t be too much trouble to learn how to video chat, or learn together. Skype dating/Video dating, as opposed to a chat with a friend on video, is all about asking questions to find out if they are suitable for you to be in relationship with them. You should be asking the tough questions very early on, the deal breakers, so you have the least amount of attachment to them, so it doesn’t matter if either of you need to move on and you don’t waste each other’s time. Ask specific questions but make them general. So if for example, you are an asexual who wants kids, ask that person what their view on having kids is, despite being asexual. Don’t ask, I want a kid, do you want one with me. That will likely either frighten them off, or they might say yes, just to be polite, or because they are telling you what they think you want to hear. And neither of those is good for you. If they say they want kids, ask them, would that be by natural means or other? Again, this is a very specific question, but you are asking it in a non-pressurising way. Ask what they think of marriage, not would you want to marry me, when you barely know each other, and be aware of anyone who talks about getting married early on, as it could mean they want marriage for a visa. Ask where they see themselves in 5 years time; in terms of where they will live, what job they will have, what their ideal relationship will look like. This way you can compare your needs, wants, goals, ambitions and dreams, for the future, with theirs, in your mind, to determine if there is any likelihood this person may be suitable for you for a long-term relationship. After the Skype date/Video date, you can decide if you would like to do it agin or not. And if they are bad for you, you can say to them part way through or early on, that you aren’t compatible, but thank them for their time, or not as the case might be, and you can end the conversation there and then.
Above all, look at asexual dating, as a journey of discovery, and not something to be scared of. It should be as enjoyable as possible.
Share this post now, with anyone who needs help with asexual dating.
As always, stay ace.
Sandra xx
P.S. If you want to watch the full length video of these 7 Steps How To Get Started With Asexual Dating, filmed as a Live Stream, you can see it here:
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