Asexual Christmas Presents: Asexual Gifts: Christmas Presents For Asexuals

Posted on October 2, 2017August 28, 2018 by Asexualise

Asexual Christmas Presents

Are you looking for an Asexual Christmas Present for yourself or an Asexual Christmas Present for others? Whichever it is, you have come to the right place. It is never too early to start planning and budgeting for those asexual Christmas presents. In fact, the earlier you start to budget, the better, because not only can you pick up some fantastic bargains before the full flood of the Christmas season hits us, you can often save money too and not over spend by rushing around buying your Christmas presents at the last minute when shops shoot their prices up!!

If you have not already got a copy of my Asexual Perspectives book, be sure you do or put it on your Asexual Christmas list. Available in both paperback and digital format, it is an an invaluable read of 47 real life asexual experiences of what’s it’s really like to be asexual in a sexualised world.

In broad terms Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, but what does this actually mean for those who identify with this sexual orientation? And what do asexuals really think of love, life and sex?

Whilst all asexuals have one thing in common – the lack of sexual attraction towards a specific person, we are all different in our likes, needs, wants and dislikes. This can make fitting into the asexual spectrum and finding a suitable relationship difficult.

Right now, there are a number of myths about asexuality and stereotypes – even within the asexual community, about what asexuals do and do not like, should and should not do, and these need to be addressed and broken through!

If you identify as asexual do you –

Struggle to have a voice in this sexualized world?
Feel alone?
Misunderstood?
Misplaced?
Broken?
Left out?
Not recognised?
Have no one to relate to?
Find it difficult to find others like you?
Feel like everyone is speaking a foreign language where sex is concerned?

Or are you unsure of your identity and sometimes get confused and you want to know what asexuals really think of Love, Life and Sex, and what experiences they have had or are having; and how they manage their relationships? If so, then look no further than this book. In this book you will discover asexuals who feel just like you.

In this book I will reveal my own asexual perspective and personal story as well as perspectives from 46 asexuals around the globe; dispelling myths and breaking stereotypes; sharing their own personal journey to help you in yours and with a surprising over-riding message!

In this book you will:

•Learn the asexual perspectives of Aromantics; Heteroromantics; Homoromantics; Panromantics; Grey Aces; Demi-sexual; Biromantic; Agender; Transgender; Polyamorous and many more.

•Uncover Asexuals’ deepest fears, concerns and worries about being asexual.

•Find out possible reasons why, in general, society does not accept asexuality as a sexual orientation in its own right and what we can do about this to change the world!

•Discover what asexuals really believe are the differences between sexual attraction, sexual desire and arousal.

•Find out what asexuals really think of nudity; porn; masturbation; BDSM and kinks.

•Discover what it feels like to have sex as an asexual and how to cope with the sexualized world that we live in.

•Find out what asexuals think about living together, about marriage and about having kids.

•Discover what an ideal asexual relationship would look like and whether asexuals believe a relationship with a sexual would be fair or not.

•Uncover the positives about being asexual.

•Find out what advice asexuals would give to a younger version of themselves regarding asexuality and what advice they would give to others who are just discovering they may be asexual.

I feel truly blessed that all interviewees have been willing to open up and share their most intimate moments, thoughts, feelings and emotions with you. What you are about to read is unique, amazing, interesting, sometimes candidly humorous, fascinating and insightful. This is their story, now it’s their time to tell it.

If you have resonated with any of these points and you want to know more, please invest in this book and add to cart! Here http://amzn.to/2fKRy9W

Heteroromantic, Author Sandra Bellamy is the founder of www.asexualise.com, with products, resources and services for asexuals. She sees herself as an ambassador for asexuality and is on a mission to get asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe so that no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again. By purchasing this book you will gain a deeper understanding of this often misunderstood sexual orientation and help to spread awareness of asexuality at the same time. We may be small in numbers, but we can still make a huge difference to the world at large and celebrate our diversity.

If you are looking for an asexual T Shirt, check out my Asexualise designs below or browse my shop on this site’s home page www.asexualise.com and if you live outside the USA, such as the UK, or you want more Asexual Merch than just T-Shirts, check out Asexualise at www.redbubble.com/people/asexualise/shop for asexual mugs, clocks, dresses, skirts, hoodies, and so much more.

Are you sex repulsed? Check out this sex repulsed asexual T Shirt for an Asexual Christmas present.

Repel those unwanted advances with this Asexual Asexualise T Shirt that makes a bold statement about how you really feel.
No more misunderstandings with this shirt. Everyone will know you don’t want no body, no way, now how.
Available in a choice of colours and sizes for Men and Ladies.

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If you are like me and you love Christmas, you will get acey goosebumps with this Happy Acemas Asexualise Asexual T Shirt.

Unique Special Edition Asexualise Happy Acemas Christmas Humorous Funny Design T Shirt.
Stand Out From The Crowd This Christmas With This Eye-catching Asexualise Design. The Material Is Soft And Warm And Will Add To The Glow Of Christmas Magic.
Available in a choice of colours and sizes for Men and Ladies.

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Do you Prefur to spend time with your cat rather than having sex? Or do you Prefur the company of cats to humans? If so, this is the ideal asexual T Shirt for you!

This Unique And Eye-Catching Cat Design Is Perfect For Expressing How Much You Prefer Cats.
Show Your Love Of Cats And Show Off Your Ace With This Beautiful Asexual Pride Colours Distinct Design.
Available in a choice of colours and sizes for Men and Ladies.

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Are you into superhero movies? Or perhaps you just want to feel that asexual super power within you with this popular asexual super-hero style asexual T Shirt?

Asexualise Official Asexual Shielded ACE Comfort T-Shirt.
Asexualise Your Life In Comfort And Style With This Exclusive Design T Shirt For Asexuals.
Available in a choice of colours and sizes for Men and Ladies.

Buy here https://amzn.to/2Pg80Lv

If you live outside the USA, or want to buy asexual hoodies, asexual vest tops, asexual clocks, asexual skirts, asexual bed linen, asexual artwork, asexual mugs, asexual dresses, asexual laptop cases and asexual phone cases, and so much more, shop for asexualise at www.redbubble.com/people/asexualise/shop

As always, stay ace.

Sandra xx

ASEXUAL PERSPECTIVES PAPERBACK UNBOXING VIDEO FROM A FAN #APAM

Posted on July 11, 2017August 31, 2018 by Asexualise

ASEXUAL PERSPECTIVES PAPERBACK UNBOXING VIDEO FROM A FAN #APAM

In the video, is probably my biggest YouTube fan, and he is unboxing a copy of my Asexual Perspectives book, watch this video as he comes alive with the joy of receiving it!

Finally, the print paperback version of my 560 page Asexual Perspectives book is now available to buy on Amazon here http://amzn.to/2u1wp0O. Or UK site http://amzn.to/2tw739A

The Kindle version of my Asexual Perspectives book, you can get here http://amzn.to/2szjNJQ Or UK site is http://amzn.to/2u6vps7. Please leave a review on Amazon to help other asexuals and to raise more awareness of asexuality.

To celebrate this book going into print, our diversity across the spectrum, and our individuality within it, I founded Asexual Perspectives Awareness Month, 1st-31st of July 2017, #APAM. Like www.facebook.com/acexualise to join in the celebration fun and subscribe on www.youtube.com/c/asexualisemyasexuallife to see a different video every day, for 31 days of #APAM, related to a topic from the book that matters to you and join in the conversation!!

5 STAR BOOK REVIEW FOR ASEXUAL PERSPECTIVES ON AMAZON: 47 ASEXUAL STORIES: LOVE, LIFE and SEX ACElebration of ASEXUAL DIVERSITY

Posted on March 13, 2017August 31, 2018 by Asexualise

I’ve had an amazing 5 Star book review for Asexual Perspectives on Amazon.

Top Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5 stars – before there was the relative wealth of information and acknowledgement that there is today – I think this book is a great idea

By David1879 on 10 Mar. 2017

Verified Purchase

I’m writing this as someone who realised and rationalised his own asexuality a while back, before there was the relative wealth of information and acknowledgement that there is today – I think this book is a great idea and could be beneficial for many reasons. A few of the contributors have found ways to explain in such relatable terms, something that may be a struggle to put across to somebody who may be unfamiliar of asexuality. Any young people who may feel unsure of themselves or those just beginning to explore the possibility that they may be asexual should find something that rings true to them in this book. I’m sure it will be a helpful tool to them, showing them that many others have had this experience. Or allowing them to find a way to tell a friend or family member with clarity that ‘I am ace, and what that means is…’.

And for older aces, or even those just curious about asexuality- taken as a collection of experiences, it’s interesting to discover the common ground and massive variations across all the entries. For some it’s an intrinsic part of their personality and for others it’s a mundane fact they barely give a thought to.

If it had been around when I was younger it would have provided a certain amount of relief to come across this book and I hope it will do that for others now it’s here.

I have also changed my book cover wording to now read Asexual Perspectives: 47 Asexual Stories: Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity. ( I added the stories part.)

To buy from Amazon UK: http://amzn.to/2mQcAoL

To buy from Amazon USA: http://amzn.to/2mBzj7u

WHY I WROTE ASEXUAL PERSPECTIVES, LOVE, LIFE AND SEX, ACElebration OF ASEXUAL DIVERSITY BOOK!

Posted on February 24, 2017September 1, 2018 by Asexualise

Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories book and Author Sandra Bellamy

If you did not already know. I have written and published a book for Asexuals called Asexual Perspectives, Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity. I interviewed 46 asexuals around the globe for it about what they really think of love, life and sex, in order to create more understanding across the spectrum, and especially after I was told in a forum on Aven that I could not identify as I describe myself because I did not fit into the definition of Grey A as they saw it. Other asexuals approached me and said they too felt left out and that they were told they could not be who they are. As a minority group, I felt so appalled that some asexuals treat other asexuals in this manner and felt compelled to write a book that showed although we share a lack of asexual attraction, just how much we vary in our experiences, our likes, needs, wants and dislikes. I want our diversity to be embraced, not torn apart.

Asexual Perspectives came out on Kindle last month and the printed version will be available soon. It took me almost a year to write it and I hope it helps a lot of asexuals to understand that there are others just like us out there and that we can be ourselves and love without sex, live without sex and be happy without sex. I also wanted to find out just what sexual attraction means to different aces on the spectrum and why they feel that asexuality is not accepted as a form of sexual orientation in its own right by society and what they think can be done about this.

This is the link to it on http://amzn.to/2l8PaGu You can get it on Amazon stores across the globe, so you can just click the option in the top right of your screen to view it on your country’s site. It is free to read on Kindle Unlimited at the moment and you can read my own personal story just from the look inside preview. You can also read most of another personal story from a person in this group…

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