Re-launch! Asexualise Back Live and Looking lush!!!! Gets a Makeover! Re-launch! Asexualise Back Live and Looking lush!!!! Gets a Makeover! Yes, it’s true! What do you think of the new look??

Unfortunately some of my other websites were hacked and my web host suspended all my sites so the virus would not spread any further and unfortunately in the process of wiping the cores files out in the other site directories, it effected the theme of this one. So almost a whole month later, after getting rid of the virus from 10 of my other sites – yes, you did read right 10, not only have I now become more of a WordPress security and back-up pro, I am sporting a brand new design!! They say a change is as good as a rest and I think the site was in need of an update too!!

A lot has happened since we last spoke and that includes splitting up with my asexual boyfriend who was no good for me in the end!! On Sunday 29th of October, I had to split with my asexual boyfriend. The guy who I thought was my soulmate, and who was really kind, sweet and loving towards me, turned out not to be so nice after all, not loving me like he first did, or valuing my worth, and in fact exhibited some controlling behaviour! It is hard when you think you know someone, then find out they are not the person you thought they are and he did a good job of fooling me!! I really thought he truly and deeply cared for me, but I was mistaken. His behaviour appeared to change so quickly!

I wrote an Asexual Newsletter which you can find here, about how his behaviour changed and about some of the signs of controlling behaviour that you may want to look out for! And about how sometimes, you have to be your own hero and save yourself and get out of a relationship that is no good for you, no matter how painful it may be:

These videos were hard for me to do, after the break-up!

After my hurt and pain started to heal! Here is my advice on how to get over relationship heartbreak and heartache!

  1. Allow yourself to grieve, better out that in. Do not bottle it up!
  2. Speak to family and friends to get their support.
  3. Get your emotions out constructively and do blogging or YouTubing if you need to.
  4. Do things that are not just distracting, but that are productive and help develop you as a person!
  5. Self-date. It is fantastic for your soul!

What other tips for getting over heartbreak and moving on, would you like to share?

So new site and new life, looking forward to the future, with ace perspective!

As always, stay ace

Sandra xx

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