Asexualise.com is a website created by me, Sandra Bellamy, especially for fellow asexuals all around the globe.

My aims of this website are:

  • To spread awareness of asexuality, big style!!!
  • To empower and enhance your asexual life.
  • To support my mission in getting Asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right, across the globe, so that no asexuals ever have to live in fear of ridicule ever again.
  • To provide products, services and resources; for asexuals; all under one asexual website roof.

I have noticed there is a lack of personal and professional development courses and services specifically for asexuals. That’s about to change with this site. I already offer Quirky Coaching and Quirky Mentoring to asexuals – If that is something that interests you – please check out http://www.quirkycoaching.co.uk and http://www.quirkymentoring.com and contact me!

I have a huge passion for writing, and while there are some asexual books on the market, a lot of which can be found on this site, I will be writing my own, to empower and enhance your asexual life.

My first Asexual non fiction book, is called Asexual Perspectives, Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration of Diversity. Since my own asexual story began around April/May 2014, I have noticed that although asexuals share common ground, in particular the lack of sexual attraction, there seems to be so much variation between aces in their experiences, likes and dislikes, when it comes to love, life and sex. In this book, I am interviewing different asexuals and want to draw on that diverse knowledge and experience to not only strengthen our alliance, but to helps others develop and grow in their own asexual life. I will keep you updated on the progress on my book, through this site’s blog, my newsletter; Twitter; Facebook, and my Asexualise My Asexual Life YouTube channel . It will be available on Amazon Kindle, free for only 5 days. To be notified of when those 5 future days happen, please sign up to my Asexualise My Asexual Life – What’s Happening? Newsletter, for free, so you can grab your copy for free.

I have noticed in Asexual forums, on Aven and on Facebook; the need for more asexual products and that is why I began in October 2015, to create my own design Asexualise Asexual T Shirts and work with Amazon.com; to print, package and post them to customers for me. So on this site, you will see these designs along with other asexual T Shirt designs that I think you may like, by other designers. As I design my own Asexualise Tees; please let me know if there is a design you would like to see. Just bear in mind, I can’t copy other’s work.

In terms of resources, I don’t want to be a copycat of other sites. I like to be informative, drawing on my own knowledge and experience of asexuality, and also to draw on the experience of other asexual’s, in order to help you in your own asexual journey.

It’s ACE to have you here and I look forward to chatting to you soon and empowering and enhancing your asexual life!