Sandra Bellamy with teddy bear heart
Me – Sandra Bellamy with teddy bear heart

Asexualise Your Asexual Life: Empower And Enhance Your Asexual Life.

It is my mission to give asexuals a voice in the world; to empower other asexuals to be comfortable and confident with their asexuality; and to give insight into my colourful asexual life, to enable others to better understand their own and to know they are not alone. I want to educate others about asexuality and get it recognised as an orientation throughout the globe, so that in the future all asexuals can live happily in society without fear of ridicule.

I am Sandra Bellamy. I identify as a Heteroromantic, Hyper-romantic, Grey A, Asexual (younger) Cougar, who personally does not like sex, marriage or kids, just passionate kissing. I run the Asexual Business, Gurus and Entrepreneurs group on Facebook, that is an open group exclusively for asexuals – putting business and asexuality firmly on the map together. I have a strong business side to my nature and a quirky teenager/ kid side. I work a full-time retail specialist day job and am a self-published Author, and a self-employed Entrepreneur, Social Media Trainer, and Business Mentor. Yet in my lifestyle I live like a teenager.

I am known online as Quirky and I never want to be normal in my life! My bedroom is like a teenager’s bedroom with cuddly toys – especially lots of Eeyores, Winnie the Pooh bedside lamp and disney pictures in my room and hallway; a fibre optic lamp, sparkly things and coloured boxes. My furry kid guinea pigs also live in my bedroom with me – or rather I live with them!! I am a piggy slave – but, Shhhhhh! Don’t tell anyone!! I will prepare food and clean for them – but as a general rule I hate cooking and cleaning, so always eat out with my friends. I love going on self-dates, especially to the cinema (love Super-hero/ Disney/Pixar movies), to the zoo, aquarium, theme park or for a nice meal.

I create my own T Shirts that I sell on Amazon.com, under the brand name ‘asexualise‘ – just type it into the search bar to find my ‘by Asexualise‘ designs – Only if they are ‘by Asexualise’ are they my own designs, as my T Shirts are becoming more popular which is great for raising awareness – so too are copy cats who are writing the word Asexualise into their bullet points even though they are not official Asexualise T Shirts. As I design my Asexualise T Shirts myself, if there is any design you would like to see then please let me know. I am working in ‘partnership’ with Amazon.com who print, package, and ship these directly to each customer as one is ordered. If you live in the UK, don’t panic, Asexualise can also be found at www.redbubble.com/people/asexualise. Redbubble ship all over, including the UK, and I am able to offer a greater range of products there, including hoodies, leggings, duvet cover, laptop cases, phone cases, bag, stickers and much more. Be sure to check it out! Prices may vary between the two sites because they use different suppliers. Two of my designs were chosen to be featured on an ad on asexualitic.com – asexual dating site that I am on. Another asexual dating site is ace-book.net – I am also on there, and in lots of Asexual Facebook groups. I also run the Asexual Business, Gurus and Entrepreneurs group on Facebook – I kind of live and breathe asexuality. I believe I was born to help you and others.

Me (Sandra Bellamy) in my Asexualise Asexual I ACED IT T Shirt

I also design my Quirky T Shirt brand and Inspiration Inspired brand of T Shirts.

I am extremely creative, so I find designing T Shirts to be amazing and hugely satisfying. My hugest passion though, is writing, I literally live and breath it every day. I am currently working on my first non-fiction book about asexuality called ‘Asexual Perspectives, Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration of Diversity’ and I’m interviewing different aces for it. It will be available to purchase on Amazon as a digital e-book, and free for 5 days only – sign up to my newsletter to receive notification of when it’s free.

Please check out this website, join in the blogging fun and leave your comments – I would love to hear from you and know what you think.